Hello guys im 20 year old guy new to this forum but I have been lurking around for a while reading here and there tips how to game girls,but mostly I have focused on my inner-game to raise my self-esteem.Im the biggest AFC ever so help me out,I want to change.This is propably gonna be a long ass story but I hope you keep reading.

So situation started 3 months ago on new years eve party.

I was having a blast on one of my friends house and I decided to call if my sister wanted to come over with his friends.She comes over with his bestfriend who is pretty hot and good looking 16 year old girl.Lets call her "X" from this on to keep things short.

So when I saw X on that party-skirt my mind told "You need to get that,shes your sisters bf but fuck that" go for it.
And so I did,I kept flirting and talking with her for next hour and to my surprise suddenly she is all over me. We ended up kissing and cuddling later that night.I got to her pants but we didn't have sex..you guys sure know what I mean.I wanted more but I didn't want to push it too much as she seemed to be a bit unexperienced.

After that night I wanted more of her and I was pretty much hooked.Maybe too much.Anyways I kept texting with her occasionally next 3 weeks,not too much maybe couple sessions a week because I didn't want to be needy.I kept it all flirty and complimented her a lot (BIG mistake there?).I thought she was giving me IOIs and she was flirting me back.But I was still a bit doubtfull because she never initiated the text,it was always me who texted her first.

After that text game period we end up in same party again,at some point of that night I pull her a bit away from the others and I tell her how I feel face to face (BIGGEST FUCKING MISTAKE EVER???).I did that because I thought it would show that I have balls and I wanted to know what was going on.

First she was pretty unsure and didn't say anything but I told her "Just tell me do you feel the same? I take it like a man don't worry".So here is where I got friend-zoned first time.We talk things over and she was pretty worried if I wanted to be her friend anymore but I kept telling her Im completely fine and just forget whole thing.(Inside thought I was feeling shit like never before,I was rejected and just fucked up again?).

So I got friendzoned but I didn't really care,I kept flirting with her via text messages like before but this time I was even more sexual than before. (This shows high-value right?)One time she asked if I wanted to drive her home from place X.Old AFC in me told me I should answer "Yes ofc" but I remembered what I had read and answered "Only if you kiss me".I ride her home but I got the kiss also.

After that I freeze her for 3 weeks,I didn't text once and we had zero contact.I was feeling like I was getting over her and tried to forget her completely since I was on friendzone.But then I make fucking biggest mistake ever.Last friday I decide to ask her out for a coffee.AND I GOT FRIENDZONED again! Guys tell me how fucking stupid was that?
Anyways feeling shitty again like when she dumbed me first time I still manage to hide it from her like it was nothing.

Now here I am,still thinking about this girl daily and where did I fuck up,analysing our conversations over and over again.I just can't let go eventhough I know I should.I know this sounds your typical AFC and oneitis but there is just something in that girl what makes me go crazy...I want her.

So guys tell me where did I fuck up this and what should I do now?
Do you think if I freeze her completely for like 3 months,and then start to game her on party like on new years eve I would have chance? or is it game over completely?

Oh I forgot to say in the first post.I really want to game my sisters bestfriend who is fucking 16 year old and im 20.I know its fucked up situation but im serious here.

First thing -- I don't condone Statutory Rape. If that's what you want to do, that's your decision, and I'm just offering my theoretical perspective here, assuming the girl you were hitting on was at least 18.

From where I'm sitting you are getting hit with a textbook case of Buyer's Remorse -- that first night when you were making out with her you should have pushed the envelope and closed as quickly as you could, powered through Last Minute Resistance and taken her.

What you have now is a very confused 16 year old dealing with an older guy, who has the BEST friendship of your sister hanging in the balance. She got to thinking, when not in the heat of the moment with you, that she values the friendship of your sister more than having a hookup with you. Had you powered through LMR and had her "feel the moment" instead of "thinking about the moment", you probably could have gotten what you wanted.

I'm sorry to say but from what you've disclosed already, you missed your chance.

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This isn't the place to look for advice on getting thrown in jail.

You were friendzoned when you became a text buddy I'm guessing. Complimenting constantly and asking her to give you a kiss for a ride is typical behaviour for a guy you won't get vagina. Maybe next time you go to the stores to buy her tampons, she will give you a hug in return.

Where I live 16 is the legal age so that doesn't worry me.And my sister knows what we had going on with her friend on that night so its fine.

But I guess you are right I fucked it up already when I didn't push enough when I had chance and she was in the mood for it.Time to move on I guess,its not easy but I gotta do it.Maybe if similiar situation arises I go for her again to see what happens but for now I just freeze her out.

Cheers guys