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PostPosted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 3:49 pm 
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When you are busy, (have to study for exam), how do you turn down an attractive girl who wants to talk/chat to you WITHOUT losing her attention?

Let's say she's really attractive and she gets a lot of attention from other guys and she's decided to talk to you, but at the same time you are busy and can not talk to her, but you don't want to lose the attention from her, how do you go about conveying your feelings and situation to her?

I am thinking of saying something like 'Busy, can't talk now' but I don't know if that will turn down any future chances of her giving me attention, since I am giving her a negative conditioning.

Any thoughts on this? Thanks..


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 4:03 pm 
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"gay, not interested sorry"


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 6:41 pm 
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Just ignore. Not that hard.

Also, just from reading your post. Seems like she has you in check. It should be the other way around.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 10:44 am 
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Just ignore. Not that hard.

Also, just from reading your post. Seems like she has you in check. It should be the other way around.
Thanks, but why would you recommend me to ignore her if she's a high value girl? Doesn't it back fire in this context? Ignoring a high value girl just gives her more reasons to not give a shit about you anymore.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 12:37 pm 
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Tell her that, its a DHV for you and you show also your different by telling her shes not so important.

I mean when I study I can always spare some 5 mins to talk to her via phone or so. Thus you keep contact with her BUT you show her that shes not so special. The shorter the time you got the more intense your chat will be. Otherwise you can also send her some funny/original song/clip via facebook and say goodbye to her.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 2:33 pm 
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Give her like a 5 minute conversation and say, sorry but I really have to go, I got a lot of things to do today but lets continue the conversation soon! Maybe over a coffee!

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Depends if you think she's worth your time. Usually if I don't find someone physically attractive I won't bother talking to them. Not because I don't think they're a good person, but because my entire childhood (i grew up really well off) I was exposed to very attractive women from infancy to high school every day.

That being said, if they actually prove they can hold a half decent conversation I will still talk to them.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 11:28 pm 
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I would say:
"I have exam tomorow, got to study, talk to you next time"

Your thinking of "I can not ignore high value girl" shows that you do not value yourself enough. This is wrong thinking. Plus those chicks like strong minded men and not those who are always available.


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