I'm not a virgin but I'm pretty close...I only had sex twice and they were both one night stands. Last night, I was fooling around with a girl that I've known for quite a while. We were both drinking and for some reason I could not get it up. I have never had this problem before, in fact just holding a girl's hands or walking arm in arm with a girl may be enough to make me get a hard on. What's going on? Was I just nervous cause she told me she wanted it?

And...this girl is freaky as hell, we were making out and she was clutching my chest and arms so hard that she actually made me bleed. It hurts all over and I'm not sure if I really want to fuck a girl who is causing so much pain.

maybe cut back on your drinking? have your heard of a term call whiskey dick?

There is over the counter sex pill you can buy if your gonna drink heavily. But be careful, for me, I get bad headaches for next 2 days. So I stop taking them.