Okay this girl and me have pretty weird conversations. One day she would tease me endlessly on everything. The next day she will be nice to me, flirt with me, tell me I give great hugs etc. The next day it is back to endless teasing. She is sending a lot of fucking mixed signals... I figure she knows what she's doing with her act. So far I have played it pretty neutral, I do tease her at every chance I get as she does the same with me. I have not shown any signs of real emotions except that I can take what I give out. So what do I do...we have a playful relationship 'thing' if I can call it that. There is attraction, but building comfort isn't so easy since its always teasing and calling each other out on stuff. Anyone have any experience?

push pull

call her out, say you're taking her out saturday night some place exciting (dont tell her what) seize control of things

if u wanna stay where it's comfortable in this cycle then keep doing what you're doing, eventually she'll grow bored of it and move on seeing you were too gutless to escalate things, or some other guy will come along who'll play the game but take the initiative in escalating.

This is a holding pattern of sorts, one which presents many opportunities to take it to a different context. If you aren't willing to do so, those opportunities will quickly fade and you'll be left with nothing, scratching your head and pondering what you did wrong.

Agreed with Cognizant1. Teasing and flirting is only fun for a woman for so long, then she'll give up hope and move on. It's sometimes difficult to switch gears so abruptly, but you have to do it.

Natural female caprice, don't let it shake you. The WORST thing you can possibly do is stress about her mixed signals or thinking "why can't I understand her?" That's kind of like a subconscious declaration that SHE IS THE CHALLENGE - which is an IMPOSSIBLE mentality to have if you want to retain an attitude of AMUSED MASTERY. You want to act like you've seen it all and heard it and all, and that there's nothing she can do to phase your SmoothAsFuck frame.

Woman who shit test more often than average like to be dominated more than others because its so rare for them to find a man who won't break under their pressures. But if you can be the demi-god she yearns to praise, you can expect morning blow jobs and cooked dinners on the regular.

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This Thread is good. Step it up, take her out and dominate. I'm with you guys n this one, the more they shit test the more you must dominate and persist.

Sounds like the sort of challenge I would have fun working on. Have fun with it, she seems keen.

Do not hesitate around her.

Okay thanks. It makes sense. I hate it when I can give good advice to others but when it's my I freeze. I'll see her today in a few hours at class. Will give feedback later.

Agreed.

And like someone before me said, just call her out on it.

I recently had a girl over and tried this.

She told me I was pretty. I looked at her and said, "Then do something about it."

Paused for a minute, then looked away. Mumbled "That's what I tho-"

She grabbed my chair. Pulled me towards her. Kissed me.

She fucking wants you dude. Grab your nuts. And handle it. You'll both have fun.

-w.

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Okay. I am taking her out Thursday. It's the only day we both can(We have loads of assignments SPAM) I noticed though my escalation wasn't that good... This weekend I practiced the Shock and Awe by Ciaran with AMAZING results. This is really really effective. I have an idea on what to do until I see her on Thursday. So I feel like I have the confidence to pull this off. Thanks for pointing me in the right direction guys. This is why I love this forum.