okay, so last night this girl invited me over, it was her and 2 of her friends chillin. We had some drinks and one of em started coming on to me. But i wasnt really into it, because I dont find her attractive. So we had more drinks and i started puttin my moves on one of the others. I neg'd her and played it really well. She was becoming attracted to me. I went in for the kiss and got one small kiss. Then later on I went for the make out, but she wasnt down because she said she didnt want her friend to be jealous or get mad at her (the one that was comin on to me) . I freezed her out and got the make out eventually, but she seemed like she wasnt that into because of her friend. I kinda just gave up and left at that point lol. what did i do wrong? any tips for the future?

Did you number close? The pick up is not all about getting from A-Z on the night you meet.

I would have got her number, and gamed her when her friends aren't around.

Take her out and do your thing.

yeah i did number close, i was just really frustrated. Like the girl that was coming on to me seemed so needy and desperate like fuck off, she fucked me over

lol negs and freeze out all in the same session? I see she had plenty of excuses Not to like you.
A) Maybe she invited you over to play "hook-up" with her friend
B) You didn't have enough rapport/escalation and went in for the kiss to early
C) She doesn't want her friend mad at her (which yes, you did have coming)
D) You gave up and left

you have to do these things one step at a time, handle the friend before anything, just ignoring her doesn't make her go away (when a girl ignores you do you go away? no you try harder, guess what you just did) THEN go on with your game
You got her number so meet up with her alone; she'll have no friend there so you'll be good to work on her

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so it was you and three girls. you tried making out with one with the other two watching, one of which liked you? you don't see the issue here? would you fuck in front of them?

I'm with midrange on this one. Tact and charm. Not just carnal intentions. Read the situation and play accordingly.

Take her on a date, escalate smoothly, It seems like your gear changes were clunky, let us know how you get on.

She told you what was troubling her: She didn't want to hurt her friend.

You didn't do anything (or enough) to ease her of this worry- you just kept trying to kiss her.

You need to make her feel like she is not a bad friend. Tell her that you are flattered that her friend likes you, and you think she is a really cool girl, but you want to be with her. That you honestly didn't even notice her friend because you were paying attention to her all night.

So basically, just be honest. At the end of the day, that's all we want. Deliver honesty with confidence and we will at the very least appreciate not having to sift through any bullshit.

-w.

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