Hey guys,

So I went on a date/hangout type thing with this girl a couple weekends ago and it went well as in we had interesting conversation. I was unsure if she liked me but last weekend we went out clubbing and she ended up sleeping over. I agreed to take her home in the morning (public transportation) and I ended up doing that and we had good conversation then and she wanted to fool around in a motel but I was too hungover and ended up heading back home. She was quite inexperienced sexually by the way. It amuses me that I like this girl...and what I mean is I have feelings for her after this short time which doesn't normally happen. I realized this recently, but she is now randomly not responding to my texts. Did a girl just use me for sex? This seems pretty f%%#ed up lol...I mean most would be alright with that and I kind of am too but I would prefer to see her again. I had a super busy week at work and was killin' it doing presentations so I didn't talk to her during the week (should I have?) so my buddy suggested that she was maybe upset about that and now thinks all I want is sex. Any input is greatly appreciated. I am not a PUA but just dropping by to see if u guys have any answers for me!!

She used you for sex.. Big deal

Just don't call or text her anymore. When she gets horny again, she'll contact you again for more.

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yea you could be right. I will just wait it out and see if I hear back from her in the next couple weeks like you said then. I was just shocked by this because it seemed that she wanted to keep seeing me and we had an amazing time... that is why my friend said she may be angry I didn't talk to her all week and I should call her but I will go with what you said.

if you haven't called her since that day then I understand why she would be upset... 1 call wouldn't hurrt.. Call her once, if no answer or returned phone call, do as i said.

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So I ended up calling and leaving a message but no reply. I have lost sleep and appetite over this...I seem to be really emotionally affected by this somehow because it seemed like everything was so perfect. If the girl did want to just fool around....why does she have to act like that is not the case? Like we made plans to meet up again and everything and ...wow....its just soo fucked.... I feel sick... I guess I am just not used to this ....

lol shit dude, did she take your virginity? Your acting like a emotional female

What did you say in the message?

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oh ya I know I sound like a complete pussy...I completely agree...I do not usually feel this way at all....maybe I am describing it worse than it is...like I do have other options...it was just that I thought that I had unreal chemistry with this girl and saw it going further...I just had a really good experience with her....besides the sex...and I mean that really...I saw it as like some shit out of the movies...like it was just perfect....I just said that I thought she was really cool and I liked her and wanted to talk to her soon..hope things r going well...I suppose I should just wait it out now....I might as well pursue other options even though I'd prefer to figure out what happened here. Let me know if there is anything else I could do. It might be like a you want what you can't have situation that is bothering me or who knows...I don't know what it is but she somehow got to me...I just don't like things to go SO well and then hear NOTHING. Like was it all fake...as in was I played just for sex? Just never happened to me before and it is the mystery of wtf is going on that is rattling me. I will normally not have any problems contacting the girl after sex if I want to go further even when it did not go this well....so when it does....wtf...who knows

Do you mean to tell me if this girl called you right now and said " I just been busy" you would have self esteem low enough to let her back into your life?

If you answer to that question is "yes" there is nothing I or anyone on this website can do for you.

If your answer is no, then it shouldn't matter either way.

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no....if you are busy you can send a message...I still would have been curious to know why she didn't contact me though....but I just talked to her on the phone. She thinks I am a player and that I think she is easy etc....My friend was right that she was angry I did not contact her earlier....she didn't use me for sex...she thought the opposite and then was like why did you only contact me on the weekend? She then said that I probably had many girlfriends and I had fucked one a day ago at most. This is brutal because I actually like this girl and she doesn't believe a word I say...if only I could get the in person meet then I could sort this out pretty easy because I REALLY am sincere.

You're putting too much into this, too soon.

Call her up, say you wanna hang out, no big deal. Keep things chill, it's difficult to say what her motives are at this point.

No I didn't put in enough effort that was the problem... I know it is soon but things went super fast from the first moment I met her. She was very upset that I did not contact her the week after we slept together. She indicted that she wanted more or nothing....and that I had blown it...I am all game for the more thing at this point since this girl has my emotions going haywire. Here is the deal though....she didn't believe a word I said on the phone so I convinced her to meet me tomorrow..took quite a bit of convincing...she was very reluctant and said things like "I don't want to be your weekend girl" and "I bet you slept with another girl within the last day"....during that meeting I have to make it clear that she was just not another notch on my belt but I feel something more....which is 100% true!!! so it is pretty frustrating. Let me make it clear that this girl really isn't just another notch on my belt and I really do like her as much as I could for knowing her this short time...in fact maybe the best ever for the time we spent together...She says that she is dating someone else who really likes her now...but I am not sure how legit that is and they couldn't be very far in so I might be able to salvage this shit...Wish me luck tomorrow...gotta pull this off

so I wasn't able to meet her today..she sent me a text saying she was sorry but she was up all night studying and doesn't want to meet today. I called but she did not answer. I guess it may be time to move on.....but I have all these feelings I want to share and if she knew that then things would be different but shes not really giving me a chance...hopefully I will be able to speak to her tomorrow or something otherwise this weekend I will be forced to go out with other girls (already made plans since this shit isn't working even though I want it to)