so ive been going after this girl for almost a month now, she gives me IOI's like crazy, we have had a study date that turned into a dinner date where we talked for 3 hours straight. She even has a personal ring tone for me now(the big bang theory theme song, inside joke)

every time we see each other(have class with her 3 times a week) we talk and it has meaning, and we are both interested with what we have to say.

But, she has a boyfriend...

When we were on our study/dinner date she asked if i had a girlfriend and i said no and i asked if she had a boyfriend and she said "we're together when we're together but distance is hard and i dont see him that much"

over the past month i am the one that texts her first, she has maybe texted me first once (i think because she feels guilty sense she has a BF) I do try and freeze her out, ive gone 3 days, 5 days, and she still never texts first though...

So my plan is to ask her on a date, just straight up tell her that i am interested in her and would like to take her out. Do you think this is pushing it to much or should i freeze her out completely until she texts me and just keep on playing it safe for awhile?

You already missed your window of opportunity. She gave you a chance to make a move and steal her away and you didn't take it. Chances are that she lost interest in you when you didn't step up to the plate.

Live and learn.

_________________
Never get broken up with again: the-addiction-formula-never-get-broken- ... 88794.html

Hell, do what I do. Just tell her anyways, you got nothing to lose. So what if you told her you like her and she's not interested. It's really all in your head. Take the chance to do something you wanted to do all along.

Why freeze her out? That only works when she's highly attracted to you. And if she has a boyfriend already to fall back on, it'll be even less effective.

Ultimatums don't work either. She'll always choose the boyfriend since it's the safest, most emotionally secure route.

Don't tell her you like her straight-up. That will close the door for you immediately since she will end up regretting her actions while having a boyfriend. Be stealthy with your actions, get her to go out with you a bit more, and ramp up the attraction. Kino the hell out of her and flirt like crazy. Don't put too much pressure on yourself and show her a good time.

Friend talk for 3 hours as well dude... Your in the friend zone 9 times out of 10 if the girl even brings up the fact that she has a boyfriend.

You have to just stop texting her all together, 3-5 days isn't enough... If she doesn't text you fuck it, if she does make your move.. If you repeat the same thing you'll get the result you've always been getting.

_________________
Email me: EddieFews@WayOfThePlayer.com For 1 on 1 coaching or consultation via SPAM, phone or IM.

Now You Can Read My Articles Here! ------------> http://wayoftheplayer.com/category/play ... fews-tips/

So you see her....3 times a week...

Maybe this is why she doesn't text you when you freeze her out. Make the best out of the time that you have with her in person and follow snargs advice.

_________________

Thanks for the advice guys! i appreciate it!

I did the five questions game on her at dinner that night so she owes me a drink that i can take her out to.

I am also in the process of trying my "partner in crime" routine.

partner-in-crime-routine-vt127960.html

I said that she will get a random text with where and when to meet so i do have the window open for future dates, just have to wait for the right time.

Thanks again for the help!

Stop with teh goddamn routines. Stop trying to be cute and be sexual.

_________________
These hos ain't loyal

Exactly!

ESCALATE!

In other words, kino, be sexual in your use of language (not sleezy), take her out on the town to diff places get her heart races and then take her home before there's any lull so she'll recall the exciting time she spend with u.