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| ponyboy13 | PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 9:49 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Mar 02, 2012 9:27 am Posts: 6 | | What up dudes?! Alright, so ill try to make this short. I am a socialable guy and feel comfortable talking/flirting with girls. HOWEVER, I have a tough time going from normal conversation to hooking up. For me, rejection is horrifying. I know i just need to get over that. Also, I cant really discern Indicators of Interest (IOI's) from someone being friendly/funny/happy...whatever! How do I let her know I'm interested without going over the top?
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| Radar01 | PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 11:57 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Fri Dec 09, 2011 8:43 pm Posts: 178 Location: London | | "if you are not escalating you are not doing anything". Escalate! Kino as far as you possibly can in small steps and see where this takes you. Check out the dicarlo escalation ladder it will help.
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| Hejsan | PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 1:54 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Dec 17, 2011 3:54 pm Posts: 110 | | What works somewhat for me is the idea that if you dont do it youll loose anyway. If youll do it, then you have the option of winning. I'm far from mastering the game but the idea keeps me in a positive mindset.
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