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Illogical5
PostPosted: Sat Feb 25, 2012 8:42 pm 
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Had pretty drunk sex last night with a girl I met at a party. Had sex again in the morning and she still seemed pretty into me. Any advice on how to go about continuing to have sex with this girl, without moving things into the relationship realm?
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Yes. Treat like nothing happened. Don't call her to chat or to set up a date. Do not tell her that you want to be friends with benefits with her.

Instead, continue sarging and gaming other women. Then, when you feel up to it, sent her a booty text.

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When it comes to forging FWB relationships, the name of the game is MANAGING EXPECTATIONS.

Most of the expectations management involved in making FWBs is done in mid-game, but there are still things you can do post-endgame that can solidify the FWB frame. It mostly involves maintaining a frame consistent to what you've had with her before you had sex. I've written a full article about this topic here: http://chiefpua.blogspot.com/2011/01/ma ... r-fwb.html
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Thank you both for the advice.
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When it comes to forging FWB relationships, the name of the game is MANAGING EXPECTATIONS.

Most of the expectations management involved in making FWBs is done in mid-game, but there are still things you can do post-endgame that can solidify the FWB frame. It mostly involves maintaining a frame consistent to what you've had with her before you had sex. I've written a full article about this topic here: http://chiefpua.blogspot.com/2011/01/ma ... r-fwb.html
Great read chief! Is their a certain amount of time I should wait after our first hookup before giving this stuff a try? Also should I just send her a text like, "Hey do you want to hang out and watch a movie?" Or are there some steps I should take before trying to get her over again?
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Is their a certain amount of time I should wait after our first hookup before giving this stuff a try?
Actually, you should have started this stuff BEFORE hooking up, but better late than never.
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Also should I just send her a text like, "Hey do you want to hang out and watch a movie?" Or are there some steps I should take before trying to get her over again?
The way you're wording that makes it sound too much like a date. If you want to be FWBs, you need keep things in the "friend zone." What would you be more likely to say to a guy friend?
1. Hey do you want to hang out and watch a movie?
2. What are you doing? Let's hang out

Regardless, don't overthink texts. They don't mean shit compared to what you do face to face.
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