Hi Guys, been a while since I posted on here. Long story short, I have hit rock bottom.
My last Girl, we broke up in like September 2011 around 6 months ago. I still sometimes think about her etc... I know I need to talk to more girls but I took the last 6 months to myself to really love myself. I'm young in my early 20's, almost done my Bachelors of Business degree and I'm a high level boxer/kickboxer and compete regularly. All my goals are keeping me busy, but I feel I am underachieving! I used to always get girls, numbers etc and close them easy. I still talk to girls on BBM, twitter, FB etcetera, but I need something more...All of my exes have been 8-9's at minimum so my standards are really high.

I decided that 6 months is a good enough time to stay out of a relationship and I want to find a loyal and beautiful girl to settle down with as I am so busy with life and goals etc.

I feel lost and just like an Average Joe, my game, inner game etc has all been polished for the past 4-5 years and I had great success, it seems this relationship just really slowed me down. Is It AFC of me to only want a Girlfriend/relationship? I just don't know what other steps to take, all my other goals have been reached but I want to find that girl (AS AFC AS THAT SOUNDS)

What do you guys think/suggest?

Thanks in advance for your input boys (and girls)

First off -- Anyone that tells you that wanting a GF is AFC doesn't know what they are talking about. PU -- the Venusian Arts, are something we use to get something we need. For some people, that is a random lay from the next attractive girl. For others, it is a meaningful relationship with another person.

What is AFC, however, is advertising what you are looking for right off the bat. Many girls are looking for exactly what you are offering -- well educated, good head on his shoulders, with career potential and ability to provide for her (and kids -- this is a biological trigger women have -- they look for men with resources to provide for potential offspring, just as Men look for women with ample bosoms -- a sign of fertility -- they can feed their potential offspring well, so your kids wont go hungry.)

So, step one isn't to join something like Meetup to advertise what you want -- people don't care about what you want. Step One is to get out there, and meet new people. Expand your social network, as it sounds like you've been "out of it" for a while. That's nothing to be ashamed of, it happens to everone -- the average person gets a whole new group of "friends" every seven years.

Picture your perfect girl. Not only what she looks like, but whats her job? What does she do for fun? Start frequenting those places -- its as simple as that. Want a girl whos into art? Join an interest group and start heading to coffee shops and museums. Want a girl who works out? Get a gym membership and join some classes -- anything that can get you into some social settings. From there, get into a conversational state -- start talking to anyone, about anything while you are out and about. Flex your social muscles, and start working on expanding your social network. From there, just keep a lookout for your new girlfriend.

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