Girl Qualifies you, so you Demonstrate Value, then she gives Indicators of Interest. After that, she "Released Tension" by throwing out a weird comment (IOD?). Now, what comes next?

What would you do? What do you tell her?

Depends. Are you in comfort with the girl?

If this is in the initial stages of the chat, I wouldn't allow her to qualify me, because that gives her the upper hand. By qualifying yourself to her, you are, subconsciously, communicating that you need to build yourself up to her level to get the chat to move forward.

Example:

HB: "So, does your job pay good?"
PUA: "I see what you're doing! We've been chatting for 2 minutes and you're already sussing out whether I can provide for you."

Something flirty.

However, if it's just a casual conversation in comfort, I'd just roll with it. Just keep the conversation flowing, ask her questions, kino escalate, dhv and build a connection (find some common ground).

Game on, broheim.

I go with the flow but ill have a girl throw multiple and string her along so she feels like she worked for my attention or acceptance, they'll value the time you two share more than if you hook her first couple ioi's.

Yeah, it's just casual. We've been chatting for about a month or so.

And I qualified her first, then she did it. (I didn't even know what 'qualify' was until I read this stuff yesterday... It was actually a little unnerving how 'text-book' our conversation was)

One more thing... What do I do or say to her, if she disagrees with me on a certain topic (just casual conversation)?

Thanks, brah... !


@ThePickupHustle - How would you do that?
You mean, like get her to qualify you more and be hesitant about giving IOI's?

Yea, there's different levels, it all depends on what the vibe of the convo were in is, what the ioi is, but generally ill flip it back on the girl in a playful manner. Tease em, give em a little bit then take it back, play stupid, throw it away, there's different things depending on the girl, senario, whatever. That's what I do and has yet to fail me. As long as you show you aren't being serious shell throw more, the more she throws, generally speaking, the more attracted she gets, and the intensity of her actions will grow.

I understand.
Also, what would do if it was a serious conversation/topic and she disagreed with you on something?

what you say and the content is fairly close to irrelivant
the manner in which you are talking, the subtext of what you are saying, and the emotions you are expressing as well as your body language are far far far more important, one guy can come up with the most clever one liners and have an amazing conversation planned and still not see nearly as much success as a guy who just has the confident body language down with good tonality with a subtext sugesting sexual intent, meanwhile he is randomly talking about ponies in incoherant gibberish, just don't react emotionally to negative feedback

don't guage interest with ioi's and iod's, use compliance

walk up, first goal
-will she talk to me
-will she tell me about her self (if so screen her for what you want in a girl *not to get her to like you, to actually fucking screen*)
-will she let me touch her
-will she be alone with me

she talks to you, try to get her into a good mood, go with the flow, don't have an emotional reaction to negativity, control your emotions, test what she will let you get away with, if she will let you get away with more or less nothing, move onto a different girl, if it is really hard to get a really low level of compliance, it will be a waste of time

a girl can be reacting negatively to you but still be attracted to you, and on that note, a girl can be reacting positively towards you and giving you ioi's and have absolutely 0 sexual interest in you what so ever, test compliance

okay firstly, you should never put yourself in a positionwhere you need her to qualify you.

It's basically DHVing yourself/DLVing her until you establish attraction.

If she's throwing out IODs, then either you didn't generate enough attraction, or she's throwing a shit test to see if you maintain congruence. The main thing is to be outcome independant and (obviously) congruent.

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"DLVing her until you establish attraction. "

How do you "DLVing" her? How do I do that to her?