I'm new to the forum and for that matter, the game in general. I need advice on something . . .

I was at a restaurant with a buddy of mine who happens to be an elite natural last night (as well as another one of my friends), and I decided to try and hit on this gorgeous waitress that was tending to us.

She would come to our table with this sensual smile on her face and talked kind of timidly. But when she came, I would just throw little nuggets at her like, "Oh, forget work, just come hang out with us" to which she replied, "Sure, I'll come hang out with you guys!", called her a buzz kill for forgetting my wine, etc. . . My mid-game is terrible, so right in-between her checks on us I texted my buddy to see what I should say and he told me to call her J-WOW because her name tag said something similar. When she came back I used it and it only provided for minimal conversation. But whatever.

She came to our table before she left and dropped off a small plate with a whipped cream smile face on it and talked with us for a little bit. Some more small talk ensued. What gets me about the whole thing is that our eyes did lock a few times while she was talking with us, but it had that slight sensual linger. Sorry for the length of this, but my question is . . .

If I wanted to game this girl, what would everyone's advice be? We're probably going back there again for drinks in a week or so, as my friend enjoys going there.

Thanks

(Oh and is it considered one-itis if there is suspicion that there is interest? i.e. our eye contact)

Nope, one-itis is when you absolutely cannot get a girl out of your mind and are completely obsessed with her. It's when you think you will never find someone who can match her qualities - no one else can "do it" for you.

Anyway, it seems like things went pretty well, so why didn't you get her number? No worries regardless, there's always next time, but it would have been much easier to do it right then and there.