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Ive more recently started to do much more daygame than I ever used to before. Since my lifestyle now requires me to get up early everyday, I cant out partying all night like before. I used to hate daygame so much. Now I almost prefer it over the night scene. Im having a couple of big problems with it though.
#1) I can walk around an entire mall on a busy day, and only find 1 or maybe 2 women Id be interested in getting to know better or fucking.
#2) If Im # closing hired help, unless I can isolate her, I cant build enough attraction to eliminate a flake.
#3) Lately, Ive gotten way too many real #s of chicks with BFs.
My questions are.
#1) Am I just too shallow when it comes to looks? I am not ashamed of any girl I have been with. Im proud if every single HB Ive ever laid.
#2) What can I do when Im # closing an HB who is ringing me up and customers behind me prevent me from building more attraction in such a short amount of time.
#3) Why are HBs with BFs shelling their out to me without hesitation, but later on when I go to set dates, remind me they are taken? I knew that from the start.
Daygame is so new to me, but I never had this stuff happen much at night. I can get a lot of #s with daygame, but way too many are flakes. Anybody with solid daygame, how do you handle this?
1) you can only answer this for yourself, keep in mind no matter what the girl looks like, she has to be into you and sexually available to you (at the very least a cheater)
2)don't focus on ''building attraction'' off a daygame number close screen her hard to make sure she is attracted to you, direct open, give her a good little touch on the arm, make sure she talks to you after the open, make sure she isn't getting freaked out by you touching her (you don't have to rapidly escalate or anything, just give her an arm touch see what she does), then start qualifying her to what you want in a girl and make sure you can hold her attention, if she responds positively to all 3 and you actually qualify based on what you actually want, then you have a done deal, she is most likely interested in you because she is compliant and passed some screening, as for flakes, some girls will flake no matter what because they are simply sexually unvailable or not interested and just being nice (this is why screening is fucking important, not worth it to waste your time on a girl who doesn't think your hot), if you want to reduce flaking though, your only choice really is try to make more of an emotional connection, find out more about her, exchange more commonalities, tell her a bit about yourself (without fully disclosing anything negative that could possibly dis-qualify yourself e.g. religious beliefs, drug use, political views unless you want to screen her for those things stay away from them), the more you connect the better, but it still doesn't 100% ensure anything, you can also get her to qualify to you that she is not flaky or that she will remember you, you can also set up a date rather then just number closeing, I also find carrying on a text convo with her basically right after the close is helpful in carrying the momentum of the interaction further without pressure on her, if you start texting her the same day you got the number
3)it is how girls are, it is funny how some guys are afraid to number close, when in reality most girls will give out their numbers if they like you or not, it is way easier to have an excuse not to see you, or not to answer their phone, then to say no when asked to give it out in the first place, and honestly if they say no it is like they are saving you time from having to deal with time wasters that will just lead you on for fun, screen hard to avoid these girls, really make sure they are interested and interesting before you close, don't try hard at all (this is just my opinion), open direct and give them a good chance to reject you so that the girls that don't reject you are actually genuinely interested, don't work hard for it at all (obviously come in strong on the open, what is meant by this, don't be trying to entertain her, or ''build attraction'' focus more on screening the fuck out of her to make sure she is not a waste of time), when you get boyfriend objections, just say ok and keep trying to invite her out anyways, if she continuously brings it up, just say something along the lines of, listen, I won't tell if you don't tell, or you don't have to tell your boyfriend, something that gets the point accross that you don't care and you are down, she will express her end from that, if it is still flaky resistance, then obviously you didn't screen her very hard at all, it is easier to just go do more approaches then waste time on girls that will never fuck you anyways, woundering wtf am I doing wrong? when really you are not doing anything wrong, the girl is just sexually unavailable and you didn't screen her hard enough
keep in mind when ''gaming'' the only close that matters in the end (unless you are looking for something else) is P INTO THE V, numbers don't mean anything, kissing doesn't mean anything, even getting a figerbang, fairly irrellivant, up until you get that P INTO THAT V, there is still a good chance she goes crazy and finds a reason to screen you out and drop contact on you and go flake mode, go for girls that screen well to the possibility of getting you P INTO THEIR V, and get it in there asap, same day if you can, first date if you can, first chance, get it in, unless you want a girlfriend or a wife, don't waste your time on girls that are not down, find girls that are on your same wave length, and if they are not down, there will be a hottie around the next corner (if there isn't then either make yourself a more attractive person, enjoy long dry spells, move, or lower your standards)
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