Hey guys,

So I've been working on this one girl for a long time now, been around 2-3 months now.

Started out with a drunken night/kiss close, turned into a friendship (other things in the way like other guy, wasn't getting any IOI. I made sure to keep a distance from someone she just tells her problems to since we hung out ALOT, and succeeded. Thanks PU!), and just recently has been sprouting into something again (which I wasn't expecting to come back so drastically)

The last time I saw her we were just hanging out but for some reason felt really natural and felt like date even though there was nothing official about it. Night ended with great rapport and leaning into each other. Unfortunately not even a kiss close (was watching TV and she didn't turn her head while talking to make eye contact), but lots of kino and end of the night felt that we were both really relaxed/comfortable.
I probably could have done a kiss if I felt the tension was there but didn't want to force it. My motto is if it feels like it'd be awkward for me to do, it'd just come out awkward since I don't really have any tricks up my sleeve to intiate it properly.

Saw her once again, and she was SUPER agressively flirty all day. Unfortunately I wasn't really in the mindset of flirting (usually I don't think about responses, and the responses are just snappy, but nothing was coming out of me at the time since I was busy with something else) and could only get a few good responses in. Didn't seem to matter though.

Anyways, my hurdle now is this. The last time we were together it obviously left an impression because there's clearly a 'thing' again, and I wanted to keep this flame going, but it's been a week or so since that night and don't really know how to text her to keep things going since I have no text game.

1. Hypothetically if that was a date, how long till the next one usually so things don't die out? I know that I can't rely on her to text me, it should be my job and I'd feel like I didn't do my job if she did.

2. The whole new hurdle I have now is that I live with my parents. The last time was at her place where she lives alone. I really want to make the next hangout a kiss close, BUT now she has a roommate that is also her best friend, and they're attached at the hip.

I know if I invite her out solo her roommate will get jealous and try to eek me out of her life when I'm not there out of spite (I've seen traces of this before they moved in at parties when I got close to her, since I'm kind of taking time away from her best friend), if I hang at her place, I'll get cockblocked.

Kinda sucks that this happened literally a day or 2 after that night where progress was made.

I'm pretty sure the best thing to do would be to get her out alone (worrying about somone trying to sabotage me > cockblock/no progress)

But what do I do? If I invite her out to a bar, the roommate will come. If we drive around and do stuff, the possibility of a kiss close will be alot harder for me since I lack morning game and no actual activity is taking place to build rapport again.

ARG


Sorry for the wall of text, but anyone have any game plans?

I've never been in a situation like this, let alone only beginning my knowledge of PU. Just feels like an annoying hurdle to deal with when I'm a complete beginner trying to practice my natural game.

Thanks