Freezed a girl out for a few days that i've been trying to get with for a while...Usuall case of sometimes she shows loads of interest (asks me out e.t.c) and sometimes she doesn't..

So last night she txts me..

Her: Could do with a hugg xxx
Me: I'd like to hug you now to, what's up? xxx

Then she doesn't reply? I just don't get it, It's really annoying..Then I think well shes just asleep. but then i can see she replying to stuff on fbook at 2am in the morning...so i just don't get it?????

Any Ideas of better responses I can reply better to that? All else I can think, is shes just testing me to make sure i'm still there? Maybe I should have left it a day before replying?

Any ideas of help..cheers guys

how soon are your response time?

be unpredictable by mixing up response time, and make her jump through hoops.

Her: Could do with hugg xxx
You: I only hugs girls that can moonwalk

Doing this, you can actually escalate it sexting very smoothly also.

cheers dude..love the moonwalk line..

I do mix it up a bit normally, on this occation it was onlt 10 minutes as it was in the evening getting late...

I've tried not pushing it with her and been a bit more nice..now im just going pure sexual, she still hasnt txt back...

but i can see shees been on fbook all day, so shes got the time

I wouldn't be bothered if she just wasn't interested, but she's starting the conversation and putting her intent out there...

so i just don't get it..Dont know whether to txt her again or what? Freeze her out again?

cheers bud

She sounds like a tease and a waste of time to me. It seems like she might just be using you for some kind of validation.

I'd be curious to see if a different style of texting works though.

Don't text her again, not for a while atleast. If a girl doesn't continue a conversation with me I will not start the next convo. It's up to her to miss me and do that. So good, she's intitating conversation...BUT not all the time. Sometimes it's a test to see if you initiate. This girl gave you an IOI and then sort of withdrew from it, teasing you. Don't fall into this. Don't start the next conversation unless you're asking her out - in which case wait a few days.

Some people are lazy are replying, I'm terrible for it. I just ignore purely because I can't be fucked texting. Or she could be trying to play hard to get.

When you're in to a girl, don't expect to talk to her that often. A few times a week is more than enough. Or you're gonna get bored of each other, say something wrong etc.

I'll say it again, as hard as it is for you to comply with this (I understand), do NOT initiate the next contact. If you wanna ask her out for the weekend, wait a couple of days. Don't seem too eager.

Edit: I don't understand why people text. You gotta be fucking good to do text game. Game in person, arrange meetings on the phone (ring not text if you can help it).

This can be annoying, but only if you let it. I know this is easy to say, but try to change focus from her to you. Who cares what she thinks? Why would you try interpret what does she mean so you can REACT according to that. Send that text you wanted to and DO WHAT YOU WERE GONNA DO IF SHE DIDN'T TEXT AT ALL. How do you get there? By constantly gaming and having bunch of girls in the pool. And that's it. If she doesn't wanna sway your way, that's ok. But you don't behave I don't get it and shit.

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Thanks guys...

Little problem tho..I only went and txt her earlier before reading this..not good I know..I sent

"It would have been hard to hug u last night..So I'll probably just have to do that tnite? But I do normally only hug people that can turn around touch the ground and touch there toes xx"

Yep..Nor reply..brilliant!

I just thought i'd put some humour in, a ead to see her tnite..but nothing back!!!

So should i just leave it now? and if she texts, maybe ignore it? (I can imaginge her sending me "xxx" at some point which she does a lot)

but it annoys me cause theres no converstation there!!! thats all she can come up with, some kisses

And she liked and put hearts on my fbook pictures?? Like i say if she didnt show interest i wouldn't bother..ggrrrrrrrrr what do u reckon?

cheers guys

If she didn't respond the first time, don't send a second text concerning the same matters during a freeze out. It was a test and you took the bait. So your freeze out did nothing because she has the pwoer again.

You need to chill with the texting.

You need to wait couple days and calll her like a man. Make plans.

Cool Got ya...When I say can I call you, or I try to call her..I just gether saying "talking on the phones for second dates ony"..or some other kind of excuse

I've got no problems with calling her, she just won't answer..so im stuck with txting for now

ok now shes just text me saying "zumba..oh my god!"

again wtf? I dont think i'm even going to reply..what do u guys reckon? another test?

I think she might be either testing you to see if you will actually stop talking to her or she is an attention seeker. Either way don't respond to her unless she starts a reasonable conversation. And even then don't respond quickly.

Got ya..I won't thanks dude, Like you say, What am i supposed to reply to that? It has no relevence to anything..I may just ring her in a couple of days..(which she wont answer) or she make actually answer as she may have no choice..

or ill txt her something like "I know a better way u can get fit" ? something like that maybe?


cheers bud

I wouldn't hold my breath on this one or burn any energy worrying about if she's going to come around or not. I've been in your position where I was REALLY into a girl I was texting and would literally jump a mile whenever my cell phone buzzed HOPING that it was a text from her (90% of the time it wasn't). She eventually just faded away. It took me a couple of weeks to fully get past her though.