how important is a social life ..? because where im from in order to be social you have to go out every night at shit clubs an drink your life away so im a lone wolf i dont have freinds i mostly stay at home all day an study im always focused on other things but at times i wonder if its abnormal for me to feel this way is there other people out there that dont care to be social i dont consider myself a angry grumpy person i get along well with everyone but iv also never had freinds like legit freinds that i hang out with just because im diffrent i dont fit in with most guy groups around where im from im not saying any of this out of lack of self esteam just wonder if im the only person thats like this

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It's not essential to your happiness, but a social life can give you free introductions to numerous girls that you would have never met otherwise. You say you're studying, so are you in school or university? Join a drama group or some other hobby you've never tried before, and make friends.

You never know what path these new friends could lead you on in life, they could invite you the greatest party you've ever been to.

thanks for the tips i do study buts its more of a home study idk i really dont care to party an thats where everything fall out of place if you dont like to party no one wants to hang out with you where im from ,what other people find fun dosent apply to me i guess o an also i forgot to menttion im from a small town so that lowers my options pretty good as far as activitys go il probly just move thats sounds like a good solution

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Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.
Sir Winston Churchill

I'm pretty much the same way. I was always very independent and didn't care too much for friends, guy or girl. I'm perfectly happy by myself. That said, now I want a girlfriend so I have to force myself to go to clubs and be more social. It's definitely not a natural thing for me, but hey, you gotta do it to get the girls.

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Its not that i dont want friends its just that i cant find anyone that i can relate to an it just feels abnormal not having that social life iv tryed the whole party thing an i just dont ever have fun mostly because i find that people act 100% diffrent when they go out im a more calm relaxed kinda person very mature but i also like doing other stuff that to me is fun like im turning 21 in march an im going sky diving ... BY MYSELF haha see that just dosnt sound right to me . as far as meeting girls I dont have a problem going out during the day an meeting women like i said i live in a small town so idk if you ever been to a small town but girls seem to be really easy , so finding a girlfreind is near damn imposable I take that back its finding a GOOD girlfreind that is impossable but iv deff decided that im going to move im thinking about Austraila

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Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.
Sir Winston Churchill