One of the things Zan talks about is that you show that you need and want women around, but you aren't needy about it.

You're going on an adventure and you'd like her to come, you'll be sad if she doesn't but you're still going on that adventure anyways.

Are there any real world examples of this? I have trouble finding the fine line between showing desire and "need" for a woman, without being needy.

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You must be the exception to the rule.

It's all about the context you put it in. Needy would be asking her to come, or saying that it wouldn't be the same without her there. Wanting would be in the context of she should come but your going whether shes coming or not. Your not changing what you do for her, but you thohght of her and that shed enjoy it, theres stimulation for her. Make sense?

You don't break the you'd be sad if she didnt come out till after you guys build an actual connection.

I use this sometimes but by the time were hanging out the girls doing this to me but I have used this a couple of times.

Ones asking could be looked at as begging ((needy))

The others suggesting and you tell her ((want))

Be wanty, not needy ~ Chief