How Do You Tell A Girl You Had A Crush On Her?



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PostPosted: Thu Feb 23, 2012 6:10 pm 
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There is this girl I met in class last semester and we hit it off really well.

We were always flirty, and had good conversations, which lasted hours sometimes.

Anyway, I will be going to a different school in a few months, and I will never see her again. But I want to tell her I had a crush on her. I will do it through text since we rarely bump into each other now.

How would you recommend I text her I had a crush on her in a non-needy way? I am not doing it with the hopes that she would tell me the same too... Doing this is something I want to do.


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 23, 2012 6:18 pm 
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don't do it at all. It will get you no where.

If anything, plans and ask her out to those plans, it will accomplish a lot then you telling her you got a crush on her.


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 23, 2012 6:23 pm 
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Don't do it. If you are never gonna see/talk to her again then just tell her, doesn't matter if your needy or not because you'll never see her again. I assume tho you do want to see her again one day? So don't say anything.


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Don't listen to people saying don't do it. If you don't do it at all you will be going to a different school while having a crush on her. That's not fun.

You have everything to lose if you don't tell her. I would recommend telling her in person.. through body language more than verbally. (Kissing her, etc)

If you can't do that just tell her in text. 9/10 she will reject you in the nicest way possible... Then you will realize that she doesn't like you the same way you liked her. You will move on and find other women.


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There is this girl I met in class last semester and we hit it off really well.

We were always flirty, and had good conversations, which lasted hours sometimes.

Anyway, I will be going to a different school in a few months, and I will never see her again. But I want to tell her I had a crush on her. I will do it through text since we rarely bump into each other now.

How would you recommend I text her I had a crush on her in a non-needy way? I am not doing it with the hopes that she would tell me the same too... Doing this is something I want to do.
hehe Sweat puppy love ! Okay so, why dont you tell her in person, that way you'd remember her reaction for the rest of your time. I'd say meet her up, get all flirty and tease her and then in the middle just drop a short line like ' hey I must let you know I had a Big crush on you' .....


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 24, 2012 1:04 am 
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You are an idiot.

To say you don't care if she responds the same way is silly. You want her to respond the same way. If you didn't care about her reaction, you'd just keep it to yourself. Telling someone you have a crush on them is actually an incredibly awkward scenario because you put a tremendous amount of pressure on the other person to respond in a positive way, even if they don't feel the same. It's shit. Just ask her out, it's way less stressful.

Or better yet, move on since you seem to have already convinced yourself she will never want you.

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You guys need to learn to let go... sheeesh! This is why women aren't approaching you guys..

Your still mentally clinging onto a girl you'll probably never see again.. Am I the only one that see's this just shy of insanity?

When you learn to let go of any woman, other women will run to you begging to be with you.. I swear, I've had hot as girl want to bang me and I just wouldn't do it because I know if I trained myself to let go of women, I would never have to approach another women again.. They'll come to me.

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