| I can only comment on what has helped me but here it is. If you think you are going to be at the club more often, be sure to get to know EVERYONE that works there. Don't game the girls but be really friendly with them. Make sure they remember your name and NEVER hit on them. More on this later. After a few times of meeting these new people, be excited to see them every time you do so again. Anyone in the vicinity will see that you know people. And don't be quiet about your hellos, be excited to see them. Tip the bartenders really well and of you put a tab on a credit card, ask them if the tip is enough when you hand back the receipt. Shoot, do the same if you pay cash. Even if it isn't much, they will appreciate it a little more. Overall, be the guy that everyone knows and loves, just don't be a little punk ass about it.
Next, smile when ever you see a girl look at you. Not in an evil way but not in a way that comes off creepy (calibrate). If a girl looks at you for more than 2 seconds, wave her over to you but be inviting and high energy. Make sure you project your voice. When a girl comes over I simply say "Hi, my name is Cris" and give her a quick hand shake. Then ill start talking about how much of a good time my friends and i are having. There is no need for lines and routines once you get comfortable in that situation but dont throw them away just yet. Keep them in your back pocket to keep the conversation going until you get your confidence where it needs to be. I always introduce her around to everyone I know (within close range) to add on as much social proof as possible. I always speak with a sexual undertone but very rarely in a direct manner. Although there have been times where 10 seconds into the interaction (not joking) I have told girls "we are fucking tonight" and they went along with it.
Calibration is big but make sure you push your boundaries because you'd be surprised what you can get away with. Some last tips would be to not drink so much. Never buy a girl drinks, only actual friends. When girls ask me to buy them drinks I pull out Mystery's secret weapon and offer to buy the second round if they buy the first. But then I add my own little twist. I make sure I pull the girl from her friends (perfect right now) to go to the bar to get the drinks. And when the bartender (who already knows me) gets to us, I order the drinks and make sure that they know that SHE is paying for them. I do this by saying something like "she is trying to get into my panties as quick as possible so she is pumping me full of drinks. These pick up artist chicks are so slick" then I make sure to laugh with them and maybe jab them a bit. There is always a little bit of tension but when played right, they turn into the one picking you up.
That's about all I can think of at this point besides making sure you have fun and enjoy yourself. When you see the club as a place where everyone knows you and introduces you to their friends, game just comes out.
Hope some of that helps man. Let me know what happens because I'm curious.
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The girls that work there will always give crazy amounts of social proof when they like you as a friend. And you want to keep them there. Sure, you can get their numbers but keep them as friends. When the hotties in the club are hugging and talking to you, every girl in there sees that. Also, hot girls typically have hot friends, so although you keep them in your pocket as a friend, their friends and fair game. And if they like you they will be throwing their friends at you.
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