Hey guys, I know this is a common topic. Lately I've been meeting a lot of girls who happen to be in relationships, and yes I'm sure they're not lying. The question is: is is worthwhile maintaining a friendship with these girls? My instinctive reaction is usually just to say "sorry, I'm interested in you so we can't be friends". Obviously this is to escape the potential friendzone development. But perhaps it's worthwhile hanging around on the periphery to see what happens in the future. What do you think?

Why not? I have many female friends that i don't expect anything from BECAUSE they have boyfriends. Although they know who i am, and that i can give them a great time. I hit on them any way and after a while, most of these girls with "boyfriends" even come to me for some nice sex or some chill time.

Befriend girls, they can teach you alot

~Goodluck

I like the idea of being upfront, it's a tough choice, but i think ultimately will help you in the future.

I mean, if you like a girl and she has a boyfriend, that doesn't me you can't game her, and while you are gaming her it doesn't mean you can't be her friend.

By being upfront-you kind of are gaming her. Example by you telling her something like I am attracted to you but we would never work, because you like the color pink, or you like heavy metal music

The color or music a person listens to shouldn't really matter all that much when it comes to the deciding factor of a relationship. So she should take you seriously but question it throughout your friendship-would we really not work just because i like the color pink??????

You are being upfront, she knows you like her, and she is not threatened by you-so she doesn't have to force you in the friend zone, or kick you out completely. You simply can exist with attraction for one another and be friends. Until either she breaks up with her boyfriend, or you or she takes initiative to escalate your relationship.

Keep gaming her to keep the attraction alive, if some how you are kicked out, move on to another girl and maybe she wont have a boyfriend.

Its great to have friends that are girls, especially ones you can go out with because then you can game other chicks while they are there and even in front of them. They wont (cant) be mad because they have a boyfriend. But if you built your attraction right, they definitely will be jealous

It depends on what you think of them. If you really think of them as friends go ahead and be friends but if u still have thoughts that you can get them you must leave them because that will only ruin your game even more.

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if you really want to sleep with girls that have boyfriends anyways, just pay attention to the compliance, alot of girls who are interested will just not mention they even have a boyfriend, and give compliance

if they do mention it, just don't react to it, aknowlege that you know in some way so it is your fault, and escalate anyways, continue flirting, continue gaining compliance

get them alone, if the girl is flaky and has a boyfriend, leave it alone and don't waste your time until she is single, you can be her friend if you want, but it is best not to slip into being a-sexual around a girl who you are sexually interested in, stay congruent with your intent, if she is interested she will respond to your frame and offer compliance

GOOD LUCK

When a gal tells me they have a boyfriend, I usually just say "oh good, now I don't have to worry about you hitting on me!" and go on gaming her. If we don't hit the sheets, lady-friends are always good for social proof and they have friends...horny, single friends!

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Thanks for the advice guys.