I met this girl and we dated, the first date seemed to go ok, the second date she seemed really keen to see me again after seeing me she was like "defo need to do this again soon" then all of a sudden it seemed she lost interest stoped talking and flaked twice so i just gave up with her but i realised i actually really like her, do you guys know what could of caused this loss of interest all of a sudden it happened about 4 days after the second date? And is there anything i could do?

Lots of things and no one on the forum can give you the right answer with 100% confidence. My guess would be you came off too needy which scared her away. But hey it's 1 chick. You should straight up ask her so you can make note of what turned her off and make sure you don't do it with other chicks. If she asks why you asked just be honest with her..

I remember asking my ex why she didn't give me her number the first time I asked her.. She told me why and also wanted to know why I asked and I asked her that.. I said something like so I know not to do it in the future.