Okay, so this has happened a few times, make a #close on a saturday night out from a girl who I'd had IOIs from, text her the next day fairly late around 6pm with some c/f, get a reply, reply to her reply w/ neg or c/f... then nothing. Anyone else had similar experiences

My latest I # closed a girl who I'd had IOIs from, a bit of kino, told her to kiss me on the cheek as i left etc but probably should have k-closed


Me: Hey Dr [her name], your help last night was valued and will not be forgotten... Did you enjoy yourself last night? Dan, with the 'pretty' face x
{basically I'd just had 20 stitches put in my face that day and she was a medical student lol}

Her (3 and half hours later): Hey, how's it feeling today? no problem, glad I could help! Yeah, had a really good night, did you? X

Me (next day about 12): Are you always this nice a person or do you have a mean side as well? im ok thanks. Its not keeping me from work. Im currently on my way to Leicester, badly need some ice tho. Im a little concerned about the bit [scarring] next to my eye x




Firstly before anyone says, just move to next, i fully plan to. i don't have one-itis any of that, if I do contact her again, it may be just to "field test" a routine I saw elsewhere, but since this sort of thing has happened a few times, I just wanted some opinions...

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It looks like you waited an entire day to text her back again. That's too long. She probably had very minimal attraction to you, if any at all, and making her wait that long was just enough to make her lose what little interest she had. Play the waiting game after there's some serious attraction there. Otherwise it just looks like you're playing games, which you are.

Girls get approached all the time. Unless you're a great looking guy, you'd have to do something that sets you apart from the rest when you met her or when you re-initiate contact.

It also seems like you're complimenting her too much.

Just my opinion, man. The positive is that you're able to open and successfully number close targets in clubs. The hardest part is getting the fish on the hook which you've done; all you need to learn is how to perfect reel them in