i need some advice/help/or just conformation that im playing this the right way.

just some back story: ive been casually seeing this girl for a little over a month now. we have gone on multiple dinner dates, movies, etc. occasionally spend time just hanging out at each others houses, sometimes she gives me a late night booty call. basically throughout this whole time we have been fucking like rabbits. she tells me all the time how she likes having sex and how attracted to me she is blah blah blah.

anyways about a week ago after dinner (both kind of tipsy) i asked her where she thought this was going, (relationship, etc.) i like the girl but im not looking for anything too serious but i wanted us to both be on the same page. (was that AFC to bring that up first?) she asked me why i would bring something up so serious after we were drinking and that she wanted to go relax at home because she felt stuffed after dinner. we both hang out at her house fuck and fuck all night never bringing it up again. until just the other day i say something to her that promts her to say "you know, im not looking for a boyfriend" i jokingly respond with "me either." she tells me she likes me but that her ex-boyfriend is on leave (military) and that shes going to see him in a few days and thought i should know that. we basicaly both discuss and agree that this is a non-exlusive type relationship that so far invovled a lot of dates/partying/sex. i tell her that ill start seeing other women then since she is going to see her ex, she says shed be ok but jealous of other girls.

since this day we have spent two days together hooking up/spending that night. it seems like a great situation in that i can keep seeing this girl and go see other girls so im happy about that but i still really like this girl. my main question is did i play this right and what can i do to get this girl to want to commit to me. i have no problem which ever way it goes (her being my gf/banging other girls) i just want some practice/advice on locking women down for the future for when i come across a girl i seriously want to date.

(first time posting, let me know if i need to add any info for clarification, thanks!)

Welcome to the lifestyle AIMUSLAU, its great that your in a situation where you can bang the fuck out of this girl and still have the freedom that you want. Taking the time to read what you posted i thought you handled it pretty well from what i saw. Now your question was that when you do find a girl that you do like and want to settle down with how do you go about that and the answer is simple always be direct and upfront about your intentions. Don't be a fucking pussy like most guys and hide your intentions because the fact of the matter is not all girls are going to want what you want, just like your not going to always want what girls want and thats fine if thats the case than they weren't what you were looking for and move on. The best way to answer your question is to always be direct on what you want whether you just wanna fuck her or you want a relationship when your direct you get direct results that leave nothing to the imagination, everything is black and white and that helps at end of the day when its time to make a decision. Always remember you have the final call and that tomorrow is never promised and im sure your a busy guy and cant spend time on bullshit so cut out that bullshit as soon as you can. If a relationship at some point is what you want be direct and if thats something they may be looking for than plant your seed and make your move, if she doesnt want that well than there you go you got your answer and now you can move on to someone that wants the same thing.