Anyone can do it when it’s easy.

I need help with a few things:

1.When your wing sucks and your night is going down hill its easy to cash in. So need help getting my state back up solo style after the night takes a bad turn. (Unforturnately right now I'm at a point where Im great if Im in a good mood. But I can’t fake it or change it if I’m cranky)

Side Story:
I’ve heard all the inner shit about generating state from within but sometimes it’s hard:

My wing got wasted. I’ve never hung with him before and he’s an idiot. He rented a car ($250) for the night just to meet this woman. Not only was she a 3 but annoying as fuck. This only got worse as she slammed tequila shots an raved about her prime as a high school cheer leader. And her friend was 41 (Mid 20s here) and not on the good side of it. Then my wing is starting to talk shit to some random dudes (never kicking it with this guy again). His date sucks and I ditched mine… Bail right? I had to DD.

2. Still not good at mixed groups. Started talking to two military guys with 2 women next to them and was unsure on the dynamic. I tried to come in non-threatening and chatting the guys up totally ignoring the girls. What would be a good way to transition the women into the conversation making you look alpha in front of them…but not triggering the guys off? I guess dealing with potentially super agro guys but diffusing them prior.

(Maybe I need easier mixed groups to start with)

Advice?
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