Okay, so I am picking up a girl at her place for our first date.

Here is some background:

I have met her only once, and that was when I got her number. We've talked on the phone around 4-5 times. We are planning on going out for dinner and drinks.


So, my question is should I get out of the car and greet her? Should I give her a hug? Should I stay in the car and play it cool?


Any advice would be appreciated. I want to seal the deal on this one. She would be the hottest girl I've ever hooked up with.

If you are picking her up at home, I would simply go knock on the door. Say hello, gauge her reaction, if open and positve, then give her a half hug. If she is nervous then no hug just play it cool and walk her to your car. I personally wouldnt open the door for her cause I'm a gangsta! You certainly can.

If she lives with parents and you are a pussy like me then stay in your car. You can do whatever the hell you want if you have a right attitude. You could even give her a peck on the cheek if she seems open to it. Just have confidence in your appearance .

So it's actually okay just to call her and say I'm outside and not even get out of the car?

Yeah. Just give her a call 2 minutes before you arrive and say something like " Hey ______, I will be outside in 2 minutes, get your butt out here" Normally they will come out and wait for you outside. But I am late for everything so the girl will normally be 100% ready.

I don't know how old you are but if she lives on her own just go up to the door after you let her know you are near by.

Are you worried about going to the door? Either way you do it, it will be fine.