Hey guys great to be here but I need help
So here’s the deal there’s this HB8.5 that works at the local pub where I go. I asked her about a tattoo she has on her arm and her answer made me curious. So I asked a friend who knows her if she was single, he said no but is thinking of breaking up with him. So I’m like cool and left it. I started going back there, I would throw her smiles and she reciprocates and i;ve caught her looking at me a couple of time too but it’s always to busy to talk properly. So now I’ve got it to the point where she notices me. Then we had the longest chat so far (1 min) while she was working and found out that we something in common and now her body language is more positive then before, that same night when she was giving me my change she just held it in my hand for a while and gave me this really coy look (it was fucken sexy). So any way I went in on the Sunday with a couple of mates when it is quieter and she was there so I asked her what she did on the weekend, she said she went out some where, one of the other bar staff was there as well and she turned say a name then stopped and said her boy friend, ie: some tranny tried to grope (went to say name to other person who knows his name) then stopped and said boyfriend. So I was like bummer, then I saw her at a local gig she came up and kino’d me and said hey but she was way to pissed to talk to her that and her boyfriend was hangn off her neck all night. Then I saw her at the pub but not working drinking there but her bf was there too so I didn’t do anything. Then I went there on Monday for the mundane fight and saw her there this time it was quite so I went and made up some bs about I wasn;t happy with her and that she ignored me on Friday night she was like sorry and I said you owe me, she said ok then I said you owe me a conversation alright she said alright. Mean while I had no idea the guy standing next to me at the bar was her bf (I figured this out when she finished her shift and went around and gave him a hug then sat onhis lap) and she had no hesitation of doing that in front of me. So confusing.
So anyway this conversation she owes me I have a feeling is going to be 5 mins while she has a smoke during work. Now I know what I want to say if I had longer but I have 5 mins I, thinking start with a dhv story I have then I don’t know. I have 5 mins for her to decide that she wants to see me again. Or is she just fuking with me I’m so confused.
So any adice would be great do’s don’ts anything
Thanx heaps guys

She's a Hired Gun plain and simple. It's her job to be flirtatious with you when she's at work. It's her job to make you attracted to her if it keeps you coming back to that establishment. Bartenders both men and women frequently flirt with their customer's to keep them coming back. They know they can get sex whenever they want it from a customer. I wouldn't be suprised it she was attracted to you based on your comments about her body language.

Her boyfriend, sounds like he is around her a whole lot and is actively involved. You mentioned that you heard she was going to leave him. There is no way to know how accurate that information is or how recent it is. Women will be ready to leave you one minute and love you the next, so goes the game.

Sure you can use your 5 minutes to DHV yourself and attempt to steal the girl. Or you can use your 5 minutes to DHV yourself and build more comfort with her. Remember the game is played in comfort stage. She isn't going to leave her boyfriend for someone she's unsure about that may not stick around that long. Continue to build comfort and when the time is right go for the girl.

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