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| koolkid | PostPosted: Fri Feb 17, 2012 8:32 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Feb 13, 2009 5:22 am Posts: 98 | | I hang out with the same people all the te and now its becoming a routine and boring I wanna go out and meet new people but I don't know how to initiate a conversation plus I wanna go Solo... what are some good advice y'all can give me on creating a new social circle
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| 7000 | PostPosted: Fri Feb 17, 2012 11:18 am | |
Joined: Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:44 am Posts: 734 | | Well if you're willing to go solo, then there shouldn't be too much of a problem. One of the main things that holds people back from creating new social circles is that they feel the need to have a "safe" option of a friend to go with them.
You can go out to bars/clubs alone and just get chatting, meet new people, talk to them and start new friendships. You can join sports teams - I recently moved to a new city, joined a footy team here and you've instantly got 15-20 new people to hang with. Any sort of group, club, or social gathering, just get yourself there and talk to people. Don't just turn up and then sit in a corner or only speak to one person all night; get there, speak to loads of people (but do it genuinely, don't make it obvious that you're not listening to them or you just want to be seen talking to as many people as possible), and then follow up on it from there on in.
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