Hey I've actually been a long fan of this forum but I've decided to get serious because im ashamed of myself and my self esteem is starting to crack. I cant have any of that. I mean I can talk to girls and get somewhere if im lucky but it happens rarely. People tell me I look like the type that gets girls but I really dont.

Im in college now so im starting out fresh.

I've never even done approaches before and I blame facebook for that. I fell into this horrible trap where for some reason I relied on social networks and high school to game on girls just cause i thought "it was easy" which it kinda was. I do think I have bad AA when it comes to approaches

So all I ask is where to start?
How to start?
When?
What to say?
Do I approach group or loner ?
When the woman is walking past me or sitting?
3 sec rule?

College is one of the best places in the world. First, you need to get over your approach anxiety. Do the 'newbie drill' and go out to the mall or somewhere with a lot of women to approach. Make eye contact and say hi to everyone you see. Even the UGs.
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Just keep at it. You may not get responses or looks at first. As your confidence builds, women will notice and be more open to the approach.
THis is a good start.

Congrats on your decision to improve man, now is a great time to have fresh start to be whoever you want to be, and get good at talking to women. There's lots of great advice on the site.

It sounds like you are putting a lot of pressure on yourself to suddenly be amazing. Instead think of it more like a computer game where you are levelling up, getting better each time you get experience.

You're a young guy and have plenty of time to have new life experiences and interactions with women. Each time you try something out that you have learned here you will get some xp and lvl up. Soon approaching, holding a conversation, flirting, getting a number, date, kissing, seducing, sex, girlfriend will be much easier than when you first started. Just take one step at a time

As you get older you will care less about what other people think of you as you will be more sure about who you are and your own identity. This will make you more confident and secure as a man which women really respond well to.

Hanging out with people who are better than you, guys you admire and want to learn from is always a great way to improve. You can begin to build some solid friendships, get switched on with your learning and put it into practice.

As you create your world, invite women to share in that world. Having plans and interests and then inviting women to something you're already doing is always easier. it has momentum and is less stress than a 'date' as she is just tagging along with something you're already doing.

Whilst it is great to be desired by many women, most guys are happiest when they have mastered their skills to get the one hot girl they actually want to be with. To have and exercise the power of choice, go after what you want and get it is a fantastic feeling!

So focus on building your life, imagine you are the sun, the bigger your world the more gravity you will have to pull others into it and women will begin to come into orbit around you. Getting good at something social like a sport or activity really helps.

Don't make the mistake of most men by making women the sun, float around them and loose all their power.

Whilst parties and clubs can be fun, daygame is usually best to start off with as women's guard is down they are not being approached by loads of guys (no competition) and they are open to conversation.

Make some female friends to get comfortable talking to and being around women to get rid of your AA. They may open up new social circles with hot babes which are great oppertunities as you will already be pre-qualified then you can game the ones you are introduced to/meet

"You miss 100% of the shots you never take"

Start one-on-one, your intro can be pretty much anything so long as you have a smile on your face and hold eye contact. Perhaps stating some observation about her (i noticed...) or the environment (something situational), then introducing yourself (hi im...) a little playful tease (you're not... are you?), or a cold read (you look like...)

Be interesting, be interested and engage with her as a person first then as the woman you desire. This way you won't come across the same as the last 10 horny creeps that approached her and got rejected, she will warm to you and become more open to your sexual intent later in the interaction as she will feel a chemistry of connection instead of her feeling you want something from her

Always match her comfort level so if she is sat down you sit down, as if the girl is sat down and you are stood up she will feel uncomfortable. Relax yourself, lean back stay grounded, breathing and calm.

Good luck man

Here's a really simple piece of advice if you live in a dorm on your school's campus: Leave your door open while you are there. Seriously, while you're studying, reading, playing games, music, etc, long as you aren't sleeping or doing anything illegal, leave your door open. If you're playing Call of Duty, somebody who likes CoD may stop by noticing it. Or if a song is playing and somebody walks by and says good song, go ahead and introduce yourself. Similarly, if you walk by a room and notice an interesting poster or something, strike up a conversation. It's a quick way to build a social circle.

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Of course, Me>Girls but I understand what you guys mean. Ill give it a try.