So I took some friends out with me for Valentine's Day. It was a good time, had control over everything we did, was the leader of the group, set up two of my friends that ended sleeping with each other that night, so it was a good time.

One of the girls I invited out, I have had a bit of a thing for, for some time. But timing never was there, she dated a guy I knew, I was sleeping with one of her past roommates that she doesn't get along with anymore, whatever.

We got to dancing, and I leaned in and kissed her. Initially she pulled away and kept dancing, but then in a few seconds she turned back around and we started making out. But she wanted to wait around for our other friends (the ones I set up - the girl is her roommate). By the time we got back, I was invited in briefly, but got the "I'm tired".

Now, I know this is where I mess up, but I just did a little "that kiss wasn't an empty gesture, I do like you". So now I have to figure out what I'm doing from here. I've known her for 4 years but we've never really hung out enough for me to be "friend-zoned" or anything like that.

How deep did I dig my grave? And do you guys think I can still remedy the situation (and how)?

Appreciate the help,
~ TallGuy