General Information

This girl has been my girlfriend for 3 months and a week now or something, i am her first boyfriend she kissed with, before me she only kissed 1 or 2 people, i took her v-card and i really like her.

She's a very busy girl with school, she needs to make it this year etc. So i can only see her on the weekends and occasionally on maybe tuesday or something, but it's rare.

She also says she would never ever cheat on me and even with alcohol she doesn't do crazy things, i believe her because she's been drunk a lot but only kissed like 1 or 2 guys in her life so yea..


The ''Fight''

One week ago she went out in Amsterdam with 2 of her friends (1 girl, 1 gay guy). They randomly decided they would go when they were just ''chilling'' with eachother, she asked if i wanted to come by mobile, i said i did but i didn't want to go alone (with this i ment that i wanted to go with them to amsterdam and not travel alone).

She understood this as i didn't want to go and she went with her friends, her mobile battery's were empty and no more contact was made.

The next day i got mad at her for kind of ''flaking'' on me, she had a second mobile where she would text me with aswell (when her battery's were empty) but she didn't respond a lot because she was a little drunk and didn't knew how that phone worked..

**Anyway we talked it out, she said that next time i should definitely come with her ! **


Fast forward

Today:

I asked her if she had any plans this weekend because i wanted to bangout (woops, hangout). She told me she had a rough week coming up with school and that she's gotta study and make a lot of homework, she said ''Sorry we can't hang out!''.

Then a couple hours later i read my twitter, and i look her tweeting with her friends saying she is going to Amsterdam again on friday night .....

I'm really confused by this..

First she told me that the next time she's going to Amsterdam i should join her... (She didn't ask me)

I asked her what she was doing this weekend and she said nothing about this..


I have really no clue what to do with this situation... What's going on?!

Thanks in advance guys !

Instead of letting this bother you, call her and ask your girlfriend of 3 months if shes going to Amsterdam. I find that a lot of guys let their imaginations get the best of them when they aren't straight up and just find out what they want to know. Do not let this drive you crazy.

decide to trust what she says or decide not to trust her.

Based on the result of the last question decide to dump her and go for other girls or decide to trust her.

goodluck!!!

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Thanks for the response!

I do trust her but i just found it odd that she told me to come next time and then don't tell me about it at all, even when i asked if she had any plans