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PostPosted: Wed Feb 15, 2012 9:29 pm 
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Guys quick intro javascript:emoticon(':D'): I´m 20 yrs old and I used to be a loser but now I can say really the opposite and I´m happy about myself:) , fast learner, humble when it comes to this forum, meanwhile cocky badass with chicks, good actor ,I like to play the character ,but still nice guy deep inside.

Now here comes the deal. I ´ve met a girl which I SNLed, ok ONS I think it´s all right until she informs me through fb( we didnt at that time exchang phone numbers) that i left my watch at her place. I remeet her and it turns out a date.We talk and at this point I´m building comfort just to able to booty call her again. Until here all right:)
Now here comes the shit , I call her again and we meet somewhere,which it was supposed to be just a pre sex location, but instead of keeping in mind this we talked again and this time it gets really deeper and with a lot of fun and here I notice I really like some of her qualities(i ve been to quite a lot of dates now with and i can say that) and we joke about how having relationships is just useless and stuff like that.

3 date : I wish it would have never happen: she comes to my place and basically we fuck again like rabbits( we even watch my favorite porn and we react it) at this point I get my best sex of my life and I like her A LOT to be more accurate I´m falling in love. She stays for the night and thats a big mistake..

Despite the fact i like her a lot she is a fuckin semiprostitute (this happend sat. and by monday she already fucked another)and I feel bad with myself for putting myself in this situation.
She also likes me a lot,but she is just LJBFB me now, whcih is fine,but it s not what i want now, I wanted that when i didnt know her..

dump her totally or apply a strategy to erase her as gf and stick to the amazing sex?

I want straight forward opinions:)!!!! :D


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 16, 2012 1:02 am 
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Just because she doesnt go exclusive with you when you havent even asked her to, doesnt make her a prostitute.

She is just doing what 99% of this forum would love to be able to do, sleep around, why is a girl a prostitute if she does and a guy a hero, I will never get that.

That attitude is not great.

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PostPosted: Thu Feb 16, 2012 1:40 am 
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She is just doing what 99% of this forum would love to be able to do, sleep around, why is a girl a prostitute if she does and a guy a hero, I will never get that.

That attitude is not great.
Girls sometimes say that... my response is pretty simple.

Old but Wise saying...

If a key opens lots of locks, it's a master key. But if a lock is opened by lots of keys, then it's a shitty lock.


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If a key opens lots of locks, it's a master key. But if a lock is opened by lots of keys, then it's a shitty lock.
That's not wise. It's stupid and misogynistic.

What part of her being a woman makes her a "lock" and a man a "key"? Her vagina and his penis. So because a man has a penis, he gets to fuck whoever he wants, and because a woman has a vagina, she can only fuck one man. I hope you realize how stupid this is.

OP, forgive her and enjoy your time together. Obviously she doesn't see this as an exclusive relationship yet, so don't let yourself see it that way. Don't get emotionally invested if you think she may hurt you.


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So let me guess...if a second girl knocked on your door with nothing but a towel on and said she wanted to fuck, you wouldn't out of respect for your current hookup? The hypocrisy, once again, is staggering. If you are here looking for a girlfriend, okay, you have an issue. But you're just jealous that she's fucking other dudes. You can't be monogamous fuck buddies, it doesn't work out. I tried it, and it sucked. If you wanna date her, say so and people can give you advice to that end. If you only want sex yet don't want her to have sex with ANYONE else, then you may as well delete her number now and save yourself the trouble.

And as for that lock thing...you know, I'm pro slut. I am here learning how to meet women whom I can hook up with, no strings attached. My goal is to have 5-6 women that I can call on any given day and set up a plan to meet and fuck within 24 hours. I also know that the women who are most likely to go with this will probably fuck other dudes. I have been the jealous guy, and it's not fun to say the very least.

For a casual relationship, just be forward. For instance, I tell girls once we establish the situation that if she fucks unprotected, I'm probably gonna end it.

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PostPosted: Thu Feb 16, 2012 11:17 am 
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She is just doing what 99% of this forum would love to be able to do, sleep around, why is a girl a prostitute if she does and a guy a hero, I will never get that.

That attitude is not great.
Girls sometimes say that... my response is pretty simple.

Old but Wise saying...

If a key opens lots of locks, it's a master key. But if a lock is opened by lots of keys, then it's a shitty lock.
That is not wise at all, just bad.

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Rofl. This thread is so full of hardcore fail followed by epic wins it's an instant classic.
Damn, for an instant a really thought this were to be about prostitutes.
BTW rocknrolla, this isn't the catholic schoolgirl chastisty friendgroup board.


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That quote will be found in textbooks worldwide for years to come.


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Look guys, It´s not only about being jealous ,
Lets talk a little in general now!
It´s about guys like us who mentally masturbate about this stuff, to find the best and most effective ways from approaching to bangin `em , and still see guys completely out of reach of our level of thinking that still might get your same beaver.
I just get pissed like an animal seeing people who are not even naturals and that are objectively pretty bad still getting lucky. I know she fucked one I know and he is a complete spoiled retard that wouldnt have achieved nothing without alcohol. I really feel confident about my game and I do believe that I and the other PUAs,and for PUA I mean somebody that can understand social dynamics and apply it in his favour, should be treated differently, and by that I mean if she would fuck with people I deem at my level, that would be O.K,but thats not the case.

The reality is I´m starting really to disgust people who dont understand our stuff, btw I´m currently flying solo,and I do get results,but a wing would improve life quality. It s not about shitty locks or good locks, it s about somebody telling you that the lock is a good one and then finding out that instead it s a shitty one...
I shouldnt have got to know her better, that was a mistake!


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I see what you mean about a wing. It is nice to have someone to talk to who understands what you are talking about.

Why dont you start up a vienna lair? There must be a lot of guys who could be interested in gaming. You dont need anybodys permission or any specific level of game to start a lair, you just do it.

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Look guys, It´s not only about being jealous ,
Lets talk a little in general now!
It´s about guys like us who mentally masturbate about this stuff, to find the best and most effective ways from approaching to bangin `em , and still see guys completely out of reach of our level of thinking that still might get your same beaver.
I just get pissed like an animal seeing people who are not even naturals and that are objectively pretty bad still getting lucky. I know she fucked one I know and he is a complete spoiled retard that wouldnt have achieved nothing without alcohol. I really feel confident about my game and I do believe that I and the other PUAs,and for PUA I mean somebody that can understand social dynamics and apply it in his favour, should be treated differently, and by that I mean if she would fuck with people I deem at my level, that would be O.K,but thats not the case.

The reality is I´m starting really to disgust people who dont understand our stuff, btw I´m currently flying solo,and I do get results,but a wing would improve life quality. It s not about shitty locks or good locks, it s about somebody telling you that the lock is a good one and then finding out that instead it s a shitty one...
I shouldnt have got to know her better, that was a mistake!
Ok, so the problem is actually that the guys she's fucking don't live up to your standards? What I mean, you perceive her as a girl without standards. This is shitty because it's actually about your ego. I gave situations like this a lot of thought and I came to a conclusion it was like this: She slept with me, but doesn't have high standards = I'm not special. And I was all into girls with standards. BUT, it's just another double standard. Would you not fuck an insanely hot girl that is so stupid it hurts? For 1 night? I'm sorry if I'm shallow, but I would. Girls are not all that different. If she's having a fun phase in her life, being open to casual sex and dating multiple people, some of the guys she sleeps with needn't be "mr. perfect". Accept that girls can be shallow as well and will go for ONS with a variety of people they wouldn't go in a LTR.

You're just mad at her because she made you feel less special.

If you want her to yourself, make her your GF. If not, well, accept that girls can be shallow and just wanna have fun.

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