Fact: If your a pussy, your not getting laid! (of course, there are exception to this)

If see these "naturals" everyone speaks of. There getting laid without any fancy openers or routines. There talking about the most normal shit out there with women, and are probably very boring, there at least there getting women.

I know there are guys who try to learn pick up, but there not succeeding. They give up. All these routines, tactics, etc.. Ain't working. Why? Because women are really good at picking up clues based on guys behavior without even knowing. And as a guy, you are communicating these behavior clues on very subtle level with out you even knowing. A guy that's a wuss, will communicate a lot different then a guy who is very tough.

Here is a thing, you can't cover this up by acting like a tough guy unless your a really good actor. In that case, you should star in big budget movies. You actually gotta be tough and alpha, without even trying. Is just who you are. Remember, the communication here is really subtle.

One of the best to do this, start taking some martial arts. No guru will tell you this really because there is no money to be made here for them.

good example:
One of my buddies, 5'5 is dating a really hot girl right now. She is so attracted to him because every time they go bar hopping, when a another guy start talking to her, he makes it very clear that his girlfriend is his, and he better stay away from her. Until she pointed that out, none of us knew about this, not even my buddy.

Basic human instinct. Women need to feel like their man can protect them and women want to nurture their men.

It's why (in a 'standard' sense) women are attracted to macho muscular athletic guys (meaning they can fend for themselves) and men are attracted to women with big tits and a nice waist (meaning they can nurture and bear a healthy child)


Personally, I like petite girls. A B-Cup and a tight ass is great haha

I'm a naturally slim dude though so that might just come with the territory.

- Stylite

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I agree with what you're saying. Pussies don't get laid. I'd just like to caution some people about the whole Martial Arts comment because I think people could get the wrong idea.

I've been practicing Martial Arts since I was six years old (I am now 27). I was an AFC until I was in my 20's.

I'm not saying don't learn the Martial Arts. I think everyone should know how to defend themselves and protect their people, so I actually highly recommend it. From my point of view any man who is a real man needs to know how to fight, but being a 3rd degree black belt won't give you confidence with women. Confidence with women is a whole different animal. There's more than one way to be a pussy.

I know from experience. It might make you confident in a fight, but not in dating. I can fight anyone without fear and know I will have a good chance at winning unless they are in the UFC or are a fuck'n Navy Seal or some kind of paid trained killer.

Fear of rejection is not the same as fear of getting your ass kicked. It's a whole other class of irrational phobia. All guys get a little nervous around women. Alot of guys that need to learn PUA to get laid have something worse than nerves. It's a really a phobia. I had to deal with it, and I think alot of other guys have as well.

I believe that for most of these guys at some period in their life they experienced some sort of trauma with women or sex at a young age that makes normal nervousness turn into a powerful, life consuming irrational fear.

It took me 7 years to get to where I am now because I din't know much about PUA until 3 years ago. Now I read and try everything. All I had when I started was email dating tips from David DeAngelo. Now you can find ebooks and videos for free all over the web. Everything I knew before I discovered this I had to teach myself.

It took alot of work and alot of balls. I had to get deep down and figure out what my problems were on almost a spiritual level. I read every self help book and webpage on psychology and self improvement I could find. I tried NLP, SA Hypnotism, and all that shit. That didn't solve my problems but it got me started Eventually I had to face my fears.

As far as overcoming this fear goes, what really worked for me and started leading to success was going out and facing my fear. The process was painful, embarrassing, and in hind sight kind of funny, but it was well worth it.

Getting rejected over and over again (and getting mocked by my friends in the process) eventually built up an immunity to the pain which began to develop confidence which was when I started getting results. Once I realized most of what I experienced was all in my head things got alot easier for me. Most of the things that I thought would happen to me never happened. When they did it didn't matter.

I couldn't talk to an ugly girl when I was in high school. Now I can talk to anyone any time anywhere. I don't care how hot she is. I'm going after her. I don't always get what I want, but I don't care anymore. It's not about success it's about the game. I just love the pursuit. It's like playing a video game. If you fuck up, just start over again with someone else.

Thinking that just working out or trying to do tough manly things will make you confident with women is just plain wrong. It can help start you in the right direction (bad boys get more pussy after all... and I tried this too) but if you have a real phobia with women it won't do shit. You'll still be an insecure pussy bitch with childhood issues pretending to act tough. Alot of women will fall for this shit but most won't.

Martial Arts won't get you laid. Game will.

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