The important thing to remember when out-manouvering an Alpha male is, to beat an Alpha male, you will need to become the Alpha male and in doing so show this girl that you are awesome and worthy of her interest.
Some examples of how you could this.
A guy comes up to you whilst you are chatting up a girl and says to you.
‘your doing well little buddy, why don’t you go be a sport and get us both a drink?’
Example 1 – The leader
Don’t acknowledge him, simply shake your head or roll your eyes then take the girls hand and lead her away from the intruding bully.
Example 2 – the patroniser
Turn to him smiling confidently ‘If you can’t afford a drink “buddy”, I might be able to give you some labouring work around the house, How good are you at gardening?’
Example 3 – The dismissor
Laugh at him obnoxiously, ‘Looks like you’ve had a bit too much already mate!’ Slap him on the back then go back to your conversation ignoring his intrusion.
This is an excerpt taken from the article "How to handle competing alpha males" http://wayoftheplayer.com/the-best-of-w ... pha-males/