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The Lone Wolf
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 13, 2012 10:47 am 
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Hypothetical situation:

You walk up to the bar to buy a drink.

HB: "Buy me a drink."
PUA: "Perhaps, but what's in it for me?" or something similar.

Now, the HB follows your directions and gives you incentive to buy a drink. Perhaps she gave you a kiss? Perhaps she gives you another IOI.

What's the course of action? Do we reward the IOI with a drink, or is that the AFC way? Do we call her out on her "gold digger" behaviour?
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She's more or less testing to see if you're a bitch like every other guy. Don't give her any indication you have plans to buy her the drink. Work it in a way where she ends up being the one buying you the first drink.
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What's the course of action? Do we reward the IOI with a drink, or is that the AFC way? Do we call her out on her "gold digger" behaviour?
DO NOT BUY HER A DRINK IF SHE ASKS YOU FOR ONE! This is a HUGE shit test. I would say call her out on her gold digger behaviour and make her work for the drink. She obviously believes she is top shit if she is asking guys to buy her drinks and that's not cool!

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ok fine... so its a shit test and you need to pass it. If however you did and got a result with the girl.. would you ever keep a girl who did that as a girlfriend?

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ok fine... so its a shit test and you need to pass it. If however you did and got a result with the girl.. would you ever keep a girl who did that as a girlfriend?
Yep. To be honest, I wouldn't be friends with a girl like that and if I were a guy, I would not have a relationship with someone like that because she sounds like a bitch!

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I ran into this recently. A girl came up to me and my friend and hinted that she might show us her boobs if we bought her and her friends shots LOL. I just toyed around with her for a little while before telling her to buy her own drinks or find someone else.
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Fair call, guys.

I had a feeling that calling her out would be the best option. Nothing is stopping her from taking the drink and leaving, even after an "IOI".

Besides, you don't directly reward IOI's with IOI's anyway, just throw in a compliance test, right?
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If you call her out on it or do the "whats in it for me line" and she responds with a kiss or something of that nature, order her a water. If you're playful with this as you should be it'll hopefully be a successful witty neg.
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There is no right or wrong. Feel the situation and act accordingly.
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You be better of challenging her on it than calling her out.
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If you call her out on it or do the "whats in it for me line" and she responds with a kiss or something of that nature, order her a water. If you're playful with this as you should be it'll hopefully be a successful witty neg.
I like that one, good call!
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Okay, it totaly depends on what kind of stage your in. If you met 2 mins ago and she asks for that its something entirely different than buying a beer for the 2 of you after 30 mins. The next one is on her or versa via. Therefore shes somewhat bound to you. You do something together now. After the drink you can also switch the place to talk better.

However I like the idea with the water after 2 mins and a beer for you. You can also neg her in a way like: I think you got enough for today. Or whatever, put a smirky smile to it.
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