Hi guys, since I've been studying PUA stuff I have been frustrated with that one thing:

Much of the material I find is about seducing random chicks you meet in public places without knowing them before.
But I find so much more interesting exiting to seduce the women I meet naturally through my social circle and work, I meet enough of them and as I said opening sets of strangers doesn't interest me there's nothing interesting at stake. I have done it for the sake of learning PUA stuff but I am not into it.

Have you got any material to recommend geared specifically towards seducing friends of friends, co-workers, and so on? This is exactly what I am after.

Thank you very much I hope I can also help you sometimes.

What do you mean there's nothing interesting? The premise of pickup is that you don't need to be introduced by friends or coworkers to meet women. You will just walk by thousands if women in your life, and to not take a moment to introduce yourself if one catches your eye just seems rather silly. If you want to find the best women, you need to meet as many as possible.

Could you please expand on how it there's "nothing interesting at stake" with women outside your social circle? I dont' even wanna discuss work because that's more headaches than its worth. Hell, if things go badly within a social circle you could end up losing half your friends who take her side on any dispute. Your point makes no sense to me.

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I just find more rewarding to seduce someone who already has things in common with me such as friends and interests in life, and maybe it's wrong but a woman will truely become attractive to me after I've seen what she's about. Before that she's just a vagina and this is not what I need in life, I want to develop strong and deep intimate relationships many women not just bring drunk party girls at home at 3am. I'm just left the next day with a hangover and one less condom in my pocket and maybe it's good for self-esteem but it's not what I want.

That's okay if I lose friends I meet a lot of people.

I have the same exact attitude as you do. I don't give a fuck about random strangers at all. They're fun to meet and talk to, but to me, it's more rewarding if you turn a friend or acquaintance into something more. I'm kind of a nerd when it comes to that kind of thing and treat it all as a big game of diplomacy. It's a lot of fun, very exciting, and while it definitely has its downsides, it's what I prefer.

You can utilize a lot of pickup theory with women in your social circle anyway. Yes, the game is played differently, but the core principles still apply. Cat string theory, negging, flirting, kino, etc are all arguably more exciting (and more effective?) when it's done with someone you already know.

Good to see I'm not the only one studying PUA with this mindset

Well I still try to avoid gaming girls I already know too much, I still believe getting out of the friend zone is tough and I need female friends to use them as pivots and social proof, but my focus is on their friends and the girls we basically meet together.

Every legit PUA will tell you how much easier it is to open sets when you are with a couple hot girls, and it's also true that they will introduce you to their friends.

I like gaming the girls I have just met, the friends of friends type you see at parties, or those I meet through work and social activities, but still before we get too close as "friends".

I perfectly agree most PUA stuff still applies, but I'd like to find some specific advice, especially on how to build deep comfort and trust, dealing with common friends or their families, material on slower seduction.

It's all the same. And nobody forces you to take girls home at 3am. Invite them for a proper date and get to learn the girl.

As for the other question: girls fall in love with men they find interesting, who have got a passion (!!!!!!) and someone with an intregueing aura.

Yeah...you can meet girls out in the world with intentions beyond getting it in.

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