I have a little bit of a situation with a french exchange student at my college in montana. Her English is moderate and my French is zero so we have a language barrier. We ended working together in the same unit at the hospital so I get a lot of face time with the girl.

Last night I invited to go out to get a few drinks and some swinging. (She had mentioned before that she loves to swing dance). Escalation seemed to be fairly easy with a simple game of 'patty cake' at the table topped of with a spin to her sitting on my lap. It was a pretty cool time, I later got the 'make out' on the dance floor. We closed out the bars at 2am and went back to her place and just passed out (nothing happened), I believe we had a bit too much of the makers.

So I just need a few tips for tomorrow night. She really wanted to go to an American Frat party (lame right, will be filled up with chodes). Its going to be a difficult night keeping her attention, because I will be fighting off random dudes the whole night.

Any ideas for a game plan? Any sort of signals from a French gal to look for so I know she is DTF?

Snce you can't understand each other as you would like then rely more on your body language, your eye contact, the way you express yourself. Keep in mind that more than 90% of the comunication is non verbal so what we say is not as important as we want to think it is.

Check these 3 videos that I'm sure can help you out with the things that I just tould you.

This is a video of Marlon Brando, check not only his eye contact but his body
language.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zg3wDlS ... bxgZ5hWo_W

This is the best video I've seen about eye contact
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_0RVo-s ... jdWDRfxft5

These are some tips for nightgame. Focus on not getting drunk and or escalating too quickly.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Su7ok6d ... 3ol_I_0AKp

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I dont think the language barrier should be too much of an issue, as the above comment says, most communication is non verbal anyway so with that in mind show her what you have to offer as opposed to just telling her.

As for the frat party id suggest that you give the girl what she wants, sure there will be other guys there but there are going to be other guys that you'll have to out game in almost any situation which is why it is good to make sure you stand out to her, make her remember you. Also as she is an exchange student chances are she isnt going to know too many other people, you will be her 'rock' that she keeps coming back to i.e. the person that she feels comfortable and safe with.

Hope this helps and good luck buddy

Epiphany

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I have some experience with language barriers myself and it's never been a problem.
Feel free to ask me anything language or culture related, as I am French too.

Language barriers are never really a problem, body language says more

Well the party is tonight. She want me to wear a "man scarf" to be a bit more fashionable. Should I fold to thes wishes or just dress as I normally do?

It's fine as long as you make her do or wear something for you as well first!

The party did not go quite as I had planned, but was still successful. I took both of the french students french1(target) and french2(friend) out last night. We started the night fairly early, say 9pm, at a local brewery to get warmed up. Almost immediately in the set was instant success. I mean everything I said was going my way, every neg and subsequent compliment led to gradual physical escalation. I ran a simple version of palm reading, I had never practiced the routine before, but decided to wing it with a language barrier as my advantage. I performed a simultaneous reading, a palm from each of them. I told a (bullshit) story of their past hardships they had to overcome and how they excelled at rising above this. Apparently there was some truth in this and they were both immediately 10 times more attracted to me than before. Like i was using some sort of jedi mind trick. I told them they each earned one hug from me and I went outside to call a cab to get to the frat party. The cab trip over was a first experience for me, I got the make out with both of the girls at the same time, I was tempted to alter the cab route back to my apartment, but I held strong and tried to continue with the game plan. And I fell flat. I dont understand how I could go from making out with two hotties, to nothing the second we pulled up to fucking delta gamma. They were pulled of me by the quarterback and his bud. They controlled the scene and I eventually left, but with my head held high.

+1 point for my improved confidence in initially holding a set
+1 point for physical escalation
+1 point for the triple makeout

I may not have succeeded in the end, but I grew a little stronger.