This girl and I hooked up in the past, and for the past 3 years we were both in serious relationships. We stayed "friends" over that time and kept in touch but never really hung out. Now I am single and she is seeing a new guy who is out of the country in the military for the next few months.

First night we grabbed a drink and she told me she cheated on him, then we grabbed a drink the next night and drank a lot and kissed a lot. Next night out we had a great time, kissed some and at the end of the night she shuts me down and tells me she cant be a bad girlfriend anymore. So basically I feel like she is being honest or shes not into me, but either way I am in the friend zone. So my question:

Do i just directly tell her I have been having fun with her but I am single now, I am not looking to be just friends with anyone, or just say fuck it and let her go? I am seeing another girl and of course sarging when I go out, but looking for the best plan to get what I want with her as well. I for sure do not want to be just friends, she is an HB9. Thanks guys!

she is a slut. exploit that.

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I have to return some videotapes...

Hahaha any other advice?

Yeah, see other girls so that a soldier doesn't come home and kick your ass.

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These hos ain't loyal

Seriously. When I was in the army 2 years ago, my gf was 2000 miles away. I hope she didn't cheat on me. Cheating is bad, but cheating on your bf who is in the military is such a disrespect, i have no words for it. Some of my friends would literally kill both the girl and the guy. So if she has done such a deed, you can do with her whatever you want with her.

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I have to return some videotapes...

Every type of cheating is disrepect not bad.

But I always says Karma is a bitch.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

True, but some guys dont respect themselves first. So why would a girl or a guy who's trying to fuck respect that guy. I'm not talking about this soldier here.

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I have to return some videotapes...

They went to school together and hung out for a week when he was here on leave and right before he left he asked her "out". Its pretty much so he has a hot chick to call home to and SPAM with and call his girl. If it was something more serious I would respect that and I do respect our military, but the situation is just whacked from the start. To me her bringing him up was more of a way telling me lets just be friends. Thats why I asked tell her fuck no I am looking for more, or just let her go