Hi all.

I went out last night, i usually dance alot, and not approaching ( i haven't properly approached a girl in a nightclub or bar (EVER!!)

Last night was fucking terrible. i went out with the intention of approach approach approach. We go to a bar, and i'm pumped to approach. Then that fucking AA! like i said didn't approach anyone, it wasn't the fear of rejection it was what i was going to say (I was going to go direct) "Don't take this the wrong way, i think you look fucking sexy and wanted to get to know you" something along them lines. I think another reason i didn't approach was that all my mates don't approach, and that's the comfort zone. I know i should push it and fucking approach. turned out to be a shit night.......

Should i just say fuck it and approach. not caring for the outcome. Also i'm not 100% sure off what to talk about... Please help me out Gentleman, It will be much appreciated.

You've been in the game for one year, and you don't know what to say?

Anyhow, you know your sticking point: approach, read up on it. Other than that, you could try Gambler's method to approach. If you're interested I can explain it, or else you could just watch his videos.

oh boy... you're thinking one year about beeing pua and you're not practicing... just do it. the first tries always end up in a desaster....

It's been said many times before in this forum: you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. I'm saying this being slightly hypocritical, but i believe this is the best mentality you can have. Picking up is fun mate, get out there and give it your best. If you fuck up, who gives a shit! it's not like your friends will criticise, they are obvious AFCs too!

Thanks Gfoote , That has totally changed my perception.

Thankyou very much sir!

Whenver/whatever you do, always be willing to fail - Arnold Schwarzeneger