So im 16 in highschool. Im a nice guy who tends to fall into the friendzone with no return. Im decent looking, im smart, but i just get seem to get past anywhere but friends with a girl and i don't want that. To many girls see me as a brother. Now this girl who goes to my school i don't know her name, i've never talked to her, and i don't know any of her friends, and i don't have classes with her but i see her around the school a lot and we ride the same bus home. How can i introduce myself to this girl and talk to her without coming off weird and how to not end up getting into the friend zone with her like i have with all other girls i've talked to?

here's one thing that all the ljbf guys have in common. they are being predictable.

just go that girl and say hi. there is nothing weird about it. she has noticed you as well. on the bus at least.

never be like I wanna be with this girl. say to yourself and you can say it to her She is hot, god i hope she's cool as well.

read forum, you'll find lots of useful stuff.

good luck.

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Hi,

This can be one of the scarier times in your life, and unfortunately i did not have the blessing of being one of the more handsome people in school. However, this is my suggestions to you.

If she was a fat Chick that you need to get homework from, wouldn't you just get up and sit down next to her and chat with her? Easy right..

Now your scared to speak to her because you believe she is on your level or higher. Wrong thinking see her as lower always, when you are on the bus, if you get on before her try and predict where she will sit, so you get a good place next to her. If you have a free seat next to you pull your bag off it and tell her, hey site here..

Just start talking in a very friendly manner. toucher her every know and again and flirt. You'll get there...

You have to take things sexual with girls pretty early on to get out the friend zone.

I only had to read the first line to know what your biggest problem here is dude.

The fact that 'I'm a nice guy' is the first most endearing quality that you describe yourself as shows a lot about your approach to women and seduction.

If you had said 'I am a goodlooking guy' or 'I am a funny guy' or even better 'I am a confident guy' it would of given me another idea entirely but the fact that you say that as your opening line tells me that this is the approach that you are taking when you are getting to know girls, that of the 'nice friend'.

You don't want to be a 'nice guy'; not saying that means you need to be an asshole but rather when a girl is describing you she's not saying 'oh the Newest23, yeah he's a nice guy', that line is normally followed by 'but we're just friends' or 'he's not my type'

Rather than concentrating on being nice to girls you should be thinking about how to chat them up, how to make them want you. Any guy can be nice at the flick of a switch but it takes a special kind of guy to be seductive, to be innately attractive, to make girls go gaga for them.

You want to know the biggest difference between the nice guys that get friendzoned and the cool guys that get the girl? The cool guy isn't afraid to take what he wants, he doesn't care about the friendship with the girl because he knows that there is an abundance of women in the world and that he has his bro's for companionship.

The only instance wherein a player should have lots of female friends is if he is using this to get access to their hotter female friends but even then he should be the one who gets to say whether it's on or not, he should be friendzoning the girls for that purpose not the other way around.

If a girl that you are interested in friendzones you, then man up and hit on her anyway even if she has told you that you're just friends. Settling for being friends with a girl who you secretly want to fuck is a massive cop out and you may as well hand over your dick in a jar.

Take what you want, don't settle for anything less than you want. You are only being friendzoned because you are letting it happen rather than taking control of the situation. Women want leaders, men who will take them on an exciting ride, they don't want little boys who stop every couple of minutes to ask for directions.

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