here's the thing, so i basically saw this girl's profile and thought she was gorgeous, but when i had clicked on her page i seen her mouth and all, when i first looked, i thought she had like her gum pushed forward or something. then a second time, i saw a little differently and realized it was her teeth. they are really white and maybe a little bucked but also look like she might have had some work done. i didnt know and sent her a message after the first look and asked what was with her gum, then when she never said anything i said i was sorry and that i wasnt judging. she basically said she didnt understand why i would say something like, and it seems like she is turned off by me.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34401859

here's the whole convo
me
what is up with your gum? do you have some kind of genetic disease or something? i'm not judging but it just popped out to me when i clicked on your page.


me
1/24/2012 7:44:11 PM
well if i hurt your feelings then i'm sorry.


Lingo85
1/24/2012 8:09:42 PM
I don't know you. You can't hurt my feelings. So if you were trying, sorry.
However, I don't quite understand why you would say that to anyone. But hey....to each his own.
Good luck with everything.



me
1/24/2012 8:19:18 PM
i wasnt being an a--hole. i think you are very gorgeous i was just curious about him. thanks, good luck too.


Lingo85
1/24/2012 8:48:20 PM
Wait. I may owe you an apology. And if I do, I'll def give it.
You're not the guy who asked me what was wrong with my smile?



me
1/27/2012 5:16:42 PM
yeah that was me, but i didnt mean anything mean by it. you don't owe me an apology.



it seemed i hit a nerve here. and yeah i said him instead of it which was a typo in that.

Seem like you were trying to be funny while you're not. Note you don't need a neg for online gaming. Those girls are already insecure enough, if you want to use a neg, use it with a humor for a laugh instead of to lower their bitch shield.

For example, if she has absolutely gorgeous eyes, neg that she will know that you are clearly just being silly and funny.

hahahaha, sorry man, but you really fucked it up

I dont think the problem was the comment itself, it was that you apologized.

The comment was hard to understand, if you had waited she would have come back and asked wtf, then you would have had a chance to reframe.
But since you asked for forgiveness she realized you were making fun of her.

But hey, things like that can happen any day.

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Insulting a girl never helps. And for the record, insults are not negs.

here's the thing this woman was looking for an LTR so really i am cautious on that i'm honestly not sure that i would want a LTR being my little experience with women. when i sent her the message i wasnt sure if i wanted to hook up with her or not.



anyways i remember vicparkguy suggested what some of us put on our profiles there and i got nothing, so i had to change it up and just play it up as dating. his strategy wasnt working. idk if this will either.

LOL

This post made LOL me laugh LOL OMG!!

Might as well call her Snaggletooth and call it a night.

You're an idiot. Why in the fuck would you open the conversation asking her if she has a genetic disease?

If it was an article of clothing, or something in a background of a picture she had up...thats one thing....But straight up asking her if she has a disease based on her physical appearance??? Come on man...Really?


P.S.

WRONG FORUM JACKASS!

haha come on dude... You really don't get how this whole dating thing works do you?

And don't even worry, that chick was hideous lol..

I'm sure she is extremely self conscious about her mouth and that is not something you should ever speak on.. It's a lose lose, because even if you said "hey, Nice smile " its still insulting lol

You don't be rude or that disrespectful to anyone ever, unless its papichulo818

If you had been born with one leg, how would you feel if a guy walked up to you and said " Hey where the fuck is your leg? Go get a peg you pirate" How would that make you feel?

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lol, man you really messed up. Why would you apologize to the bish. Remember the goal is to not look so needy bro.

You lost her but reply with this for the lolz

"To be honest, your eyes are too far apart. Nose is definitely crooked. The shape of your face is not aesthetically pleasing at all. You look like a 3/10 with make up in this photo. I don't even want to imagine what you look like without make up. I actually just threw up in my mouth, just thinking about it.

Your head is too big (although that may be, because of your giraffe neck posture). As for your hair, lol. Seriously, do something. You look like a horse.

Stare at your face for more than 5 seconds, and you will see how ugly you are. The eyes which are too far apart is what ruins/damages an already ugly face even further. Unfortunately for you, that can't be surgically fixed, lol.

You arms are way too long. lol at how they hang by your sides. Kind of reminds me of lurch. As for your tits, we all know there is extra padding there. Don't even let me start on your pale complexion. It only works if you look hot. Unfortunately, you do not look hot. It’s hard to sum up a creature like you in one word. 'UGLY' would be unfair, since it doesn't reflect how repulsive you look. GROTESQUE is stretching it. But somewhere in between, is where you would be, on the scale of an average man.

I'm sorry if my words seem a little harsh. Just so you know, I sugar coated this message as much as possible.

Have a nice day."

Wow they're more of you idiots? You guys have got to be from the same little town lol

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bro, its called trolling...

So basically you're projecting your own insecurities about your looks onto someone else. K, good idea...

Its cool bro..he was just trolling

i was just curious! i guess it shows i have high standards. and what would you expect from a virgin at my age who wanted to not have pre-marital sex for several years and didnt care about approaching women. you see unlike dan the dan, i havent had the money and job to go out and meet women. and no this is the right forum, unless you meant online folder.