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| Dave Samuals | PostPosted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 3:43 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Jan 06, 2012 7:35 pm Posts: 12 | | Ok guys so i have a situation and id like some feedback to see what you guys would do in my situation. So i go to my local community college and there is this girl in my class shes cute as can be and i felt the only way to ever aproach is always direct. So i went up to her one day after class and told her i know this is pretty forward of me but i think your fucking cute and i just had to come over and talk to you. We talked for a little over a half hour and i thought everything was going well. So i got her number and the next time i saw her we made plans to talk one day after class so the day of that class i texted her just to confirm if we were still on to hang out a little after class before i had to go to my next class and long story short she didnt awnser my text. When i walked into class she still said hi and smiled but the odds that she didnt get my text is highly unlikely. So the only logical explanation is she got my text and she just didnt awnser for reasons unknown to me. The point is this girl is actaully sweet and shes so fucking cute and stopping is not an option until i get clear signs shes not intrested. To me because she didnt awnser one text doesnt count as enough signs to just give up, so i see her again on monday im thinking of going up to her and calling her out on it not in a mean way but direct and to the point to get to the bottom of things. My question is in dealing with this situation how would you guys approach this and where would you guys go from here?
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| P-Style | PostPosted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 4:06 pm | |
Joined: Fri Jun 17, 2011 1:10 pm Posts: 847 Location: Belgium | | Call her out on it. Put the pressure on her by making her break rapport. Make her aware you're not digging her shit behaviour. She'll turn faster than a helicopter.
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| OliverKing | PostPosted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 4:07 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sat Nov 26, 2011 12:19 pm Posts: 39 Location: Montreal,QC | | Hey mate,
I just want to say a few words about approaching directly in colleges. I am guessing this girl around 18-20 years old. Some of the girls in this age are not mature enough. So obviously by approaching directly, you put lots of pressure on her. I am saying this with confidence, because I have been in this situation and most of my direct approaches in college just failed.
My suggestion is meet more people and make as much friends as you can. Don't be obsessed with her.
Cheers,
OliverKing. _________________ For More Information Visit: www.cliffslist.com
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| supern0va1 | PostPosted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 6:10 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Mon Jul 18, 2011 7:12 am Posts: 84 Location: Colorado Springs | | Dont call her out on her bad behavior directly. You have plenty of options and its no big deal.
Most likely this was her clear sign to show you that she wasnt interested. But if you cant take the hint or still believe there is hope. Text her and tell her you guys gotta hang out. She either will respond or wont then you know and can move on. _________________ -Supern0va1
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