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I go to a community college in a somewhat small town. There's probably about 10,000 people that go there and I'm afraid that if I start approaching girls on campus that they will remember me. I rarely see them again but I'm so afraid that they will that I just won't do it. Has anyone else been had success at college campuses? If so is it harder or easier then the streets?
It's not just college.. let me give you some advice coming from someone who lives in a town of 10,000 people.
It sucks.. believe me.. There are only a couple of bars that people go to and a packed night for our most popular bar is like.. 20-30 people.
The people who go there every single night are the people who grew up together and have their weird little small town cliche and if you didn't grow up in high school with them, they will find any tiny little flaw you have and use it as an excuse to hate you.
Think about this for a second.. let's say you do pick a girl up from your local bar/pub or what ever.. yes you're going to see her again, unless you play World Of Warcraft and never leave your house. A town of 10,000 if one of those towns that when you go out to the grocery or the bar.. chances are you're going to see the same people over and over again. With the bar scene in my town.. it's the exact same people every single night and weekend.. there's never any "out of town" sets or girls by themselves.
Strangers I found were usually friends with that small town cliche. Can you break into the little small town group that "runs the bar/college/pub"? Sure.. but even if you do.. god forbid you ever hurt the girl or break up with her because now you're enemy #1 for the rest of your and their lives.
My advice: Hit on girls at the nearest town/college of 50,000+ people.. MUCH MUCH MUCH less white trash drama there and you'll actually see strangers.