Hi

Ok so Im trying to improve my social circle so i joined this london adventure social group. I have been away with them before they seem ok but im finding it very very hard to make any kind of real friends its a big group about 60 people but they all seem to stick to there own little groups.

I have come on holiday with them to Austria ..I arrived on sunday and did go out with them on sunday night drinking. I also have had snowboard lessons monday tuesday and wensday ...today was supposed to be a fancy dress day ..on this ski strip it was supposed to be the highlight of the whole trip!

They new I wanted to go but they have all left the hotel without me and i dont know where they have gone. I feel like I have lost face alot its a lack of respect.

Why should i be friendly to them now ..there is an arranged dinner latter this evening they will all be talking about how great the fancy dress ski/snowboard was earlier and when they ask me what am i supposed to say "you c***'s didn't wait for me" if i had the money i would be tempted to fly back how and tell them to f** off.

Why is it up to me to tell them to wait they know i wanted to go no i feel a right tit and a billy no mates.

What would you do ..oh be sarcastic all you like i really dont care what ever turns you on.

Honestly dude I would just be cool about it

Whining like a loser is only going to make them dislike you more than they already do..

I would go to the dinner and say "Fuck you guys for not waiting for me " And then follow up like " How was it anyway?" and like " ohh wow, im soo jealous of you fags "

Just be cool dude, stop complaining, if you wanted to go bad enough you would of been where you needed to be at the proper time. Stop blaming other people. Your whole attitude is probably one of the reason they didnt wait for you anyway.

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