Signs a date didn't go too well?



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 8:04 pm 
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Hi guys, just got home from a date. It was a fun date but my paranoia and negativity from my past AFC life assume the worse. From the following, can you tell me if I have sexual potential or am I to be friendzoned:

1) There was a lot of teasing between us.
2) There was some kino from both sides.
3) She genuinely looked interested and excited. Whenever we left a venue she kept suggesting to do more things.
4) I let her do most of the talking, and I acted like a good listener (she even said I was.)
5) Here's where we start to fuck up. When we started talked about phobias, she said that hers was wasting her life and continued by talking about her (now-gay) ex and how their relationship sucked. She told me how he mistreated her bla bla bla...
6) She used the dreaded phrase "You're going to be my psychologist tonight." Dammit.
7) When I put my arm around her, she kept her hands in her pocket. However this could have been due to the freezing cold. Curse this cold snap over Europe. I later removed my arm upon noticing this.
8 ) She offered me a lift back home in her car (I don't have one yet :?). When we got in she asked if we wanted to go some place else instead cause she didn't want to go home. I declined since the date had passed the 2 hour mark.
9) She said that despite our date and the constant chatter, she doesn't know a lot about me and I was still mysterious to her.
10) I suggested future dates. Told her to ring me up if she's in my area next weekend.
11) Before I got out of her car, I think she kinda avoided eye contact and hesitated a bit when I pecked her on the lips.

Advice? If its bad how can I turn this around?


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 8:19 pm 
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You got what? 9 out of 11 positive things?

Keep it up ;) Massive make-out session next time and your golden.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 8:40 pm 
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Relax :) everything is cool, you didn't fuck up or anything.
just don t lose your cool... and don't over think stuff.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 9:16 pm 
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Haha thanks. I'm asking cause after some research, I found out that the ex thing and kiss hesitation might mean lack of sexual attraction. If its the case I wanna fix that, don't want to end up in the friend zone.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 9:16 pm 
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Ex'es are used for what in the community is known as qualifying. By giving the example of someone she both qualifies herself and sets a standard for you. There is much valuable information the gather in what she says about her ex.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 9:54 pm 
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Psycholozoned.

JK, you did good. You just need to get out of that psychologist state and get her interested in you and what you have to say. This is definitely recoverable.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 10:04 pm 
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stop being such a sensitive little bitch. Grow some man balls.


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