Hey guys so lately I have been hanging out with this really pretty, quiet/shy nice girl with other friends as a group. At first it looked like she was really hesitant to talk to me but now she is opening up and starts talking to me more then before.

From what I heard she does not like to get into relationships unless she is friends with the guy first. She broke up with her b/f of 5-10 yrs I don't know how long but it was long. Anyways I did not want to scare her away by being to forward but I also wanted to let her know I was interested. So I asked her out on a casual date out for coffee.

Unfortuantley she had to work that day and I figured she was not interested.. So I backed up a little and she initated contact when I did not go out a night a bunch of friends went out. She called and invited me but I couldn't go out.

Anyways we hung out again yesterday as a group of friends and it seems she is starting to open up to me alot more then before.

I guess my question is what do I do from here?!? I don't want to end up in the friend zone but I also know she is a girl that wants to take it super slow and is not fully ready for a relationship right now.

I'm so lost as to where to proceed..

Should I do something for her on valentines day? I know its kinda corny but she is a really sweet and nice girl.. so I don't think regular rules apply here that would apply to most girls.

Sure ask her out.

The answer to most of your concerns is invariably don't put all your eggs in one basket. Pursue other women, why limit yourself to one. Heck this lil tidbit of advice can be applied to 3/4 of the posts here on any given day.

No girl wants to take it slow.. I don't care what they say. If you move at their pace you'll be friendzoned anyway because you would be taking her orders and moving at a speed that she's deciding.

Girls want to be swept off their feet, they want they're world rocked. Be the hero that comes into her life..

The valentines day thing can get creepy if you haven't shown any interest in her yet.. Don't over think this, just treat her like she's already your girlfriend.

The girl that came to my house today was acting a bit nervous when she walked through the door but as soon as she sat down I just plopped a seat right next to her and through my arm around her with a smile.. we had sex in an hour.

Assume the attraction bro, taking baby steps will land you in the gutter everytime, go for the kill.

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Your right about that. Thanks alot great advice!