"...No hope for the hopeless I can see the pieces all laid out in front of me! No point even asking why, couldn't help even if you tried. Just step aside my friend lest you be the next contestant to feel the brutality." Disturbed.

I don't know, even though I feel like I do. I have to get to her no matter what. At all costs. That's how I feel, and I know that. I don't know anything else, well...

I know her campus, I used to know her and her friend 2 years ago. So far I have one female friend at her campus who I hung out with the other day and she said she'll help me find her there and meet up again. I have The One's friend on facebook, its her best friend they still hang out together all the time (i know that from facebook because i am a stalker lol)

And even though niel strauss and mystery have reputation of having divine powers of attraction and the final say on love, i think they're just like everybody else and thier advice of going out and meeting a lot of other women and fucking them didn't work for me, because i am still haunted by The One's love to an extreme degree, in fact even more so now that I am able to attract a lot of hot girls, dispite the fact that my personal life is a fucken mess of many sorts.

There is only one way....... I feel like i am marked for demolition, just a time-bomb ticking inside, no hope for the hopeless i can see the pieces all laid out in front of me....

Odd situation. Any advice on how to game a campus MIGHT help, i am seeking every form of guidance i can, and I am preparing myself to game with style and gritt to an extreme degree and I am working on self-amusement the hardest, however thats a real challenge for me to amuse myself because i just quit smoking... Not a great feeling, in fact i feel totally fucked up. Really hard to laugh or be happy, but that doesnt matter im gonna get over that in a few days maximum a week or two. time for extreme game

Please only give good advice, dont bullshit me. I really need advice that's outside the box, and i know there are a lot of creative puas in this forum. Like actually creative, not sound pretty pretend creative types, but actual CREATIVE MOTHERFUCKERS im calling out to you my brothers, help me do this

HELP ME DO THIS I REALLY NEED IT THANKS

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Get psychiatric help, that's my advice.

If you're this torn up over one girl, you aren't even worshipping a girl, you're worshipping an idea. You have built this woman up to an image she probably doesn't fit. It's not healthy. Game is not the solution for you. Even if you gamed other girls, ten thousand others, it'd just be a sexual placebo. You'd be banging those girls because you only value yourself by how women perceive you.

Seriously dude, get a therapist, get your shit worked out, then enter the game.

Man, wtf man. I am sane enough to know that the way i feel is insane. And no i am not going to literally blow up. What i mean is I am scared shitless that i will remain an emotional mess for the rest of my life if I don't get her, i'll allways be sad you fuck dont you realize that? and no i am not allways sad because that's retarded. I have problems but I do enjoy myself sometimes. The point is... I am going to do MY BEST to get her and marry her. I have a lot of cultural similarities with the girl which shall remain unnamed... I am well qualified and suited for her, it's not WAYYYYYYYYY out of league here, its atainable all though i duno she could be engaged by now she's finishing university soon. I M very willing to use dark-side of the game... whatever it takes yo. gotta do this... I am doing fine now, i am going to college, i have a fucken job, i have friends, i can attract women, and my main problems had to do with addiction which now I am done with........ not just ciggerettes other things too, but i am done with it, i feel quite healthy and i started working out. I am 5'11 and 140 pounds... i am not ugly....... in fact i am very decent looking, i got a great voice...... i mean, i dont need to sit down and talk to some fuck who makes a fotune by listening to my problems......that's a waste of my life and a waste of the governments money since I live in Canada the government pays you idiot dont you understand how wrong taht is?

Anyway........... OUTSIDE THE BOX CREATIVE ADVICE OF THINGS TO DO ANYTHINGGGGGG THAT MIGHTTTTTTTT help me actually get her....... anything creative you guys can suggest, please help me

Thank you

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by the way what you wrote doesnt help what so fucken ever. Might as well have shut the fuck up and save me the hastle of writing this reply, wasting more of my god damn time. I mean jesus, i need HELP, ACTUAL HELP, to do this....... so please write only if you honestly think you can help me get her....... thats what I need help with, and i am being as preciese as I can, is there anything vague about taht? thoguht so.....

Pleaes help

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This is what I mean. If you're stuck on one girl, no advice in the world will clear your head up. But it's clear that you aren't on the right path. I won't post again, and I wish you the best of luck. Still, I think you're creating a Beatrice that will only lead you to trouble.

You have to follow the advice you wrote in your original post, you must seek out other women, and focus on improving yourself, not on the women themselves, get good at getting girls, once you can consistantly fuck a new girl every week and you have a certain approach to how you get it done, do that exact same approach on the girl you want, but make sure you spend a considerable amount of time not in contact with her, so she realizes how much you have actually changed, but honestly, some things are just not meant to be and sometimes no matter how much ''game'' you have, no matter how good looking you are, some girls are just plain not interested and there is absolutely nothing you can do that will change that

but with that in mind, you have to go out and find a concrete way of getting laid that gets you consistant results, then emplore the strategy on your oneitis, it is that simple, there is no way around it, reading a few posts or books won't do shit for you, there is no magical thing to say or do, girls are attracted to who you are, and what you congruently project, not what you say after reading an e-book or a few posts on a forum

If you want to get your oneitis, you must want to fuck her above anything else and be confident enough to escalate very fast.

Drop the love lalaz bullshit.

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I could not easily, but very effortfully fuck a different girl every week. Every day is beyond my powers. That being beside the point, i have a lot of female friends now in my life and at the time i met my oneitis, she was my first successful set. I was literally a lone tiger at the time. I gamed her and her friend using scripted routines and had both hers and her friends number, went to lunch with them, and a movie by day 3. This was at work. Then a friend who i helped get a job there backstabbed me, and asked them out without me and shit, even though he knew i had fallen in love with her. He to this day has never admitted this to my face. he was also friends with my best friend, who i told everything i was gonna do. My best friend didnt want me tied down so early in the game, so him and the guy i helped get the job amogged me, and totally destroyed my game. At taht point, i was so upset and mindfucked, i got 4 packs of ciggerettes and stayed up an entire night smoking non-stop by my window... i wasn't even a smoker... i lost it basically... i was gonna kill someone, no fucking around. Then i realzied it was not worth it, it wouldnt help me get the girl, and i quit my job at the place because i stopped going. The girl and her friend texted me and stuff, telling me one of thier friends at that place liked me and thought i was cute, lmao that girl, thier friend, stalked my ass over the phone for 3 months until i found out who it was, she even knew my address howmany nephews i had, thier names, etc...... she would like call me at 3 in the morning drunk out of her mind telling me she loves me she'll killherself, that she's standing outside my door and wants me to come out..... i checked no one was there lol, and after i called her name out finally, she hung up, and never called me again because she knew that i knew... anyway that's a funny side-story to it all. But i did a stupid fucken thing given how dumbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbb i was back then. I stopped talking to my oneitis and her friend. I still have thier numbers to this day..... and one of them on facebook (unfortunately not the oneitis, her friend only on facebook)...... Over the past 2 years, i've transformed totally..... like i said, i got female friends, my game is great, etc etc, im just sooooooooooooooooooooooooo fucked up over the oneitis, and i know how human humans are, she's not special i know, but wtf, i still love her for no reason its fucked uppppppppp............ I have so much invested in this at this point, anyone who knows about investment ( I WISHHHHHHH I KNEW THIS BACK THEN), that i have no way but to go get her at all costs........ i dont think i can undo the emotional attraction and i dont want to........ i just need to get this done no matter what. and i am gonna do it, whatever way i gotta do it......... i just posted on ehre to get some extra tips or advice that might come in handy...... i have my gameplan already, like i said, i hang out with girls at her campus, just did the otehr day......... im gonna game this like a pro, im gonna do it, SHE IS GONNA FALL IN LOVE WITH ME, I AM GONNA MAKE HER lol BY BEING CREATIVE........

Any advice that you think might help, please post, and DJ Z i didnt mean to be rude to you, sorry, i was cussing at your advice i wud never be rude to a fellow pua on this forum you're all well intentioned and trying to help me, so sorry for any offense........ i mean it.......

thanks

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talking and building rapport and waiting it out for months and months, won't get you the girl, trying to get her alone and going for the fuck, that is what will get you the girl, as for being amogged that is all in your head, you don't own her, that guy can take those girls out any time, it is your own fault for not trying to fuck her, not doing so, not dating her, that means she is fair game and he did nothing wrong and it didn't ''destroy your game'' that is all in your head, lots of young girls fuck/date multiple guys at the same time, you have to de-tach yourself from this, she is not in love she wants sex, give her sex, fall in love after or you will get super needy and she will toy with you/manipulate you and you won't get laid (generalization but it is pretty fair to say), this is how the pussy side of the friend zone works, the other side of the friend zone is the ugly side, you are either too pussy to fuck her, or you are too ugly and she doesn't want it,

so, isolate, escalate, and close, if you can't, wasn't meant to be, and you should move on, and get better at escalation and closing

that is pretty much all there is to it

You're so knee deep in bullshit, I say you might as well give up and embrace your Oneitis. Barrage her with at least 50 texts a night, follow her whenever you can, and offer to be her slave. Eventually she'll HAVE to succumb to your never ending charm.

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You guys have me wondering, maybe i should get over her. It's so fucked up, I even know that if i could go back and not invest so much emotion into this, not have that investment on my part, i wouldnt feel like this. Right now, it;s like i am bullet proof, because i know not to invest that kind of energy into any girl, no matter how attractive, it's almost as if i am put off by thier charm lol it only hardens my cock thinking about the fact how much i dont care to fall in love with girls i meet now. I am like totally fucken real with them and no i am not misagonistic, i dont even kno how to spell that, and i am real with girls like i am real with others....... It's like a hypnosis i am under though, its really fucken difficult, i know you guys think i am stupid and should get over it, but it's ALOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT harder done then said. However, i've been watching RSD transformations and listening to jeffy, when he talks about travel being theraputic, etc, i have a lot of experiences in my past where that was a positive experience for me where i went off to the U.S partied with my cousins, even got laid and it felt sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Awesome i cant put it in words. This girl, i didnt even vibe well with her, i actually attracted her friend more because of the usua;l "ignore target" strategy, i mean i know its all in my head and its stupid as fuck...... I know guys, you're right, i know that.............. I fucken know that okay....... And also funny how thier friend stalked me afterwards lmao, i mean i get it.............. And i have to say i am starting to feel different, and i cant even explian why....... maybe the fact that my addictions threw me to such a low mental state, that i forgot to enjoy myself. honestly i forgot, and i am realizing that right now as I write this. Yes i can get girls, yes i can fuck a girl tonight if i wanted to and put my mind to it by calling some of the fuck buddies i have and convince them to meet up, but it's like i am so pathetic after the fucking i will be teh same sad fucked up low-life. Even though i have the ability to be successful and honestly happy.

Dispite having said all that. And i swear to god tonight, i am feeling different...... my desperation is like 35 percent gone... its still there, i mean, but that's just because of the investment for the lst 2 yeasrs having cried many times alone, thinking about her every night, even when i was with other girls, i would sit in Jack Asstors with group of guys and girls, with a girl who is down to fuck me, and is turned on vibing me and shit, and i would imagine how nice it would be if SHEEEE was there, THE ONEEEEEE.....

I don't know but i am realizing that i am on a journey, its like holy fuck, i sound text-book right now, but what i am feeling is real. I still want to go try to get with taht girl, but i swear to god if i can feel about 3 times as good as i am right now ( a target i'll acheive i figure in about 3 to 4 weeks) taht girl will be a piece of cake to attract....... i've fucked hotter girls, but earlier today and before that, it never had any bearing on my emotional state. and now that i stopped my addictions and i am eating healthy and working out, i feel a new passion that's calm and focused and not so insane and desperate and saddly trollish......

I am like a sad troll of some sort, i know i sound like that, and no i am not taht in real life i am better then that, im a great guy i know that, i have few great friends, mostly cousins, and a shitload of fucked up friends who i hate....... lol but i know i am a great guy, its like i am seeing the complex nature of hte road of the journey i am on. It's a new feeling, but i still want to go after that girl and any tips will help

Thanks so far for your replies, i appreciate your itnerest in my situation. Thank you...

P.S,
earlier i wanted to swear at some of you for some of the more recent replies... I now realize how sadly trollish that is, and i am a dark troll pondering this planet lmao it's making me laugh now... I have to do the right thing for my own sake, i am realizing that more and more, and this effects my family too... holy fuck...

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