Going to a outdoor party soon And was wondering if you guys had any tips?

I've been working on my conversation lately Because I usually cant think of what to say to women or freeze up.


Right now I've been working out alot so my confidence is really good.
I have learned to pass shit tests,
There is going to be booze/ herb which Will probably make me relax

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Heat!

Don't get under the influence of anything. You may think those things will help you relax but in reality you'll end up hurting yourself because your brain will be hindered. Just go to the damn party and have fun.

pop a viagra, walk into the party with your pants down and just walk around till you find a hole to put it into. Even if it's a catanlope, that's fine, just find a wet hole.

The only thing alcohol does is make it a bit easier to approach...

Long time ago I went out with this friend (who was new to pick-up) and he drank an awful lot. When he had finally mustered up the courage the courage to make his move, he walked up all macho, did half the who lies more opinion opener and threw up over the poor girls shoes....

I'd like to think we are all intelligent people here, so I'm just going to say don't be the guy in the story above.

For actual advice: *I don't know what kind of party it is but I am going to make the assumption there wont be loud music, so more of a bar setting*
- wear something that makes you stand out from the crowd (red shirt usually does the trick)
- Laugh it up with the guys a bit, prepare a few jokes if you have to. Peek out the corner of your eye if a girl sees it, and go!
- Last but not least, drop all expectations of the night, relax, have fun Get in with a playful mindset, not an I want to fuck some girls brains out mindset.

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U sound like one of those dorks in every other 1980s comedy where one nerds tells the other, who through some series of fortuitous events ends up on a date with a girl way out of his league, what to do through an ear piece.

You sound like the guy on body building forums who talks shit because he was once fat now he thinks hes got huge confidence because he lifts, meanwhile your gf is using her ASL (ab sucking lips) to suck on my abs while im milking your sister.

Anyway OP just take it easy man, if you got social proof just enjoy yourself and try to go for a less drunken girl.

It's ok, you're hurt. Keep trying to save face, it only humours me more.

LOL why does everyone on here beef each other. Bitches are the real problem.

Roid rage maybe?
Had my laugh at the 80's joke, might consider stealing that one....

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You'll regret a 100% of the shots you don't take.

FOR REAL. Why's everyone hating on each other??

I love parties. Parties are my bread and butter. I can go into a house party only knowing one person, and by the end every single person loves me, I've been making out with the hottest girl, and I get invited to all their parties after that.

I've heard many times to keep your energy one notch above everyone else's. I've begun to notice myself doing that, but it didn't help me when I started. I'll revise this to say that if everyone is standing, you shouldn't be sitting. Stand and move more often than you sit and relax.

Say hi to everyone immediately as you see them. Whether they're new to you or old, saying hi and learning their name will establish you as confident. How many times have you walked into a place, noticed someone beside you, but no one made a move to greet the other? It was weird, and you probably didn't talk to them that night. Meet people right away, it's actually very easy in a party setting.

Don't play beer pong unless your target is on your team. Cheer loudly and be friendly when watching beer pong.

Dance floors at parties are awesome. People interact with each other more than at clubs. Learn to notice the ebb and flow of the dancing. Sometimes it will peak. Then people gradually make their way off the floor, and it dies out for a while. Then, when people tire of other things, they come back. When you sense the dance floor picking back up, get in there, be loud and friendly.

^On that note. It can sometimes be intimidating to dance with hot girls. One trick is to grind your ass into a hottie. This is the reverse of normal grinding. She'll laugh, it'll be fun and relieve tension. Then pay attention to someone else for a little while, before coming back to grind properly with the hot girl.

Most of all, have fun.