Story goes back a year so I will try and make it snappy with bullet points..
* Eastern European girl starts working in my the building I work in.
* She seems keen and we end up going for drinks on couple of occasions
* She is still hung up over ex boyf... nearly goes back to him, but he wont commit to her as his family wouldn't approve
* I behaved like AFC,, treated her to dinner and night out without a kiss, hand hands let alone fuck (2-3 dates)
* She wasnt very forthcoming and after I got back from a few days away, she broke it off
* I deleted her from FB and she got really funny about it. Told her I dont want to be friends.. she found that difficult funnily enough.
* When there was communication over texta month later, I ended up offending with negs that weren't negs of about wrinkles in her face and something else. She stopped speaking to me after going mad. We patched it up eventually.
* About a month went past last year and she saw me chatting to another girl in the building.. before you know it she is texting like mad - assuming that me and girl are getting it on.
* I kind of didnt deny it or admit it.. i kept it ambiguous on purpose. Just said I thought the other girl was fit.
* Month or so later I see her and she tells me she is a seeing some guy.. almost like trying to make me jelous know. I acted cool and wished her luck but was pissed off inside. I know she is dating him. seen the FB proof.
* She soon added me and her ex back to facebook and I accepted this time just to see what would happen.
* Before xmas.. she was offering to help me with something (that I didnt really need help with) almost like to keep the contact
* we spoke on phone when I called her and I was talking about girls in general and I girl I was going on a date on.. She asks me 'if you saw me in a club - would you chat me up?' I said I dont know.possibly lol
* We were texting her just before xmas as she was saying thanks for somethign I helped her with and I replied about 'well how are we going to be without each other?!' but she didnt reply back.. End of Dec...Jan = nothing.
* In jan i see her taggign all these places on facebook she goes to with boyf and amazingly goes back with him to a place I took her on our first date?!?!? wtf?!
* 1st Feb - she start her contact by sending email jokes.. so i gently reply back
* next day i upload a pic on FB and shes commenting and liking it.. quite alot.
Again I am modest in reply.. and dont ask questions.
* Also, when she added me and ex before and comments on my stuff - she delted the evidence. lol
* Then I get a FB message asking how I am.. I reply again and dont ask questions...
ok.. so thats where we are up to..
So
1) I dont think this girl is for me longterm, but I would love to fuck her.
2) Im not stuck on her as I was, but I want to know what her game is as she is still dating this guy
3) I would love some advice, because I feel when I step forward, she steps back.. little bit of cat and string.. She's no fool, but maybe a little crazy..
How would you be?.. sexy cocky?... laid back no interest?... 100% ignore etc.. etc..
I dont know. .................. help!?
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