This post is a bit long, but it's hopefully worth the read.

I went out last night, I approached the first group of 6 girls i saw outside Club1, and I engaged conversastion with what I thought was the hottest of the group. I shook her hand, then hugged her, then immediately after the hug i made out with her in front of her friends as they were all shocked and watched. This was all within the first minute of the interaction.

I told her i had to go to club2 to meet my friend, and i'd be back at club1 later, neglecting to get her number(i've made this mistake before with a girl that was incredibly into me! damit i hope i learn the 3rd time). Friend wasn't there at club2, I did some approaches while i waited, my state was amped up from my first interaction. The next approaches were social and didn't really go anywhere, the next i got pushed away and they told me to get out of their personal space as i got close to them, i persisted and they got mad. The next few approaches were all pretty social and didn't go far, i had a low level of interested towards most of the girls in club2, since they were mostly marginally older than me.

Went back to club2, after i met up with friend, I got booted out immediately for dancing up the stairs, blowing my chances of seeing the girl at the start of the night, i was annoyed at my mistake of not getting her number, but still very in the zone. Club2 had a few new yougner prospects that i approached which led to the boyfriends being aggressive towards me(I wasn't aware they had boyfriends). We left club2 at that note.

Went to club3, Approached girls on floor one, got a no go away with about 6 approaches, conversations failing to even start. Upstairs opened up, and this is when the rejections started to get harsh, Went up stairs forcing myself to still be amped up,
approached "Yuck, you're degusting get away from us"
next approach -they turn away and don't even look at me-.
Next approach 2set one yells "FUCK OFF" really aggressively at me.
Next approach No we’re not interested as soon as I say “hey”
Next approach dance floor, 2 set. Get face palmed in the head by one of the girls, forcefully pushing me away
Next approach, went to hug two girls, again "FUCK OFF!!!!!" and physically pushed away with force
Next approach, "i've got a boy friend" girl smiling. me:"that's alright i ju-" her: "I'VE GOT A FUCKING BOYFRIEND" as she pushes me away very angry.

I ran back into my friend at this point, and said, I just need to go outside for a bit and sit down and chill for a bit, I told him how I wasn’t having fun anymore, and wasn’t sure if it was a good idea to go back in and keep trying. It’s honestly the last thing I wanted to do, he told me how it’s always going to happen rejection and all that kind of speech.

I would of loved to of been able to keep going and be unaffected by these rejections, but I lost my state in my head and just decided to go home. I’m not sure if I should of forced myself to go back in and try to have fun, I didn’t feel like it, so I decided not to. Any Feed back would be great.

yeah i got some,you're a courageous idiot,i can tell you why it worked the first time and not the rest.

the girls were outside the club either just arriving or getting a look if any better guys were about to enter,i still go with they were just arriving maybe having a smoke or just chilling outside.

as for why it worked first can be broken down to points
1)she was a slut (HOPE NOT)
2)she was taken by surprise
3)she wasn't drunk(personally i think it's this reason but only plausible if they were just arriving)

yes i said wasn't drunk,by the time you had entered the other clubs the ladies had been drinking and were out of a conscious state of mind,normally beneficial for us pua's but not with your approach,why? because your approach is a solid burst of randomness and it's good but under the influence can seem fucked up and desperate.

however not being under the influence (if my theory is correct) she was taken by surprise and taken in by your charm and sudden bold gesture,and initially just went with the flow.not feeling like it was the alcohol or the feeling of being a slut but rather the MAN she had in front of her who was assertive and controlling while still having the decency to introduce himself and hug her then go straight for the kiss,you had confidence and the factor of alpha male because surprise surprise you were the only guy.

try it again however earlier into the night when the girls are slightly loose from the alcohol and not intoxicated by it.

Just my theory
Michael

She had one drink, i managed to get that out of her in our brief interaction, I know what i did right to get her, I'm not at all confused about what i did right.

I'm sure girls being slightly drunk could have influenced their harsh rejections, either way it was a good learning experience. Thanks for point of view.

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Be pro slut. Seriously, we are here talking about how to hookup with women at clubs and bars yet you think women who want to sleep with guys are somehow worse? It's silly. Every guy here who is working on ways to hookup with multiple girls should WANT girls that are willing to hook up with multiple guys. The hypocrisy is suffocating.

Club game is a joke. Quote 60:

Night game gets the award for the biggest joke. It’s like girls give you a harder time
about having the confidence to approach them in person then if you just contacted them
online.
The same guy who they diss at the bar with their girlfriends is the same guy they would
easily meet up with by themselves just because he sends her a cocky online message.
It makes no sense. I guess some women don’t give you any extra points for having
confidence That is why I don’t take night game personally at all.
The shields are up. It is a huge obstacle fest of cock-blocking and women pretending
they don’t want to fuck (asd). All of her frumpy friends are with her and ready to drag
her away in a moments notice. Hilarious. It’s a total joke. If you take night game
rejection serious you are nuts. This is pure comedy.

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"show some love".

i love you man! not so helpful though...

i tell you what,you're an alpha man for trying to win over your mind,and go back in,you are fucking brave,and that's should be enough of a reason for you to be happy! not fucking sad!
you got more balls then 70% of the fucking population,so head up man,you're already on track!

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Read This One:
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Is that from 60yearsofbeingmentallychallenged?

Come at me, brah.

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I actually agree with DJ_Z here.

@californication, thanks man. That definitely helps put it in perspective. I've re thought about it since friday night, and i realize it was a very positive night.

Try not to have your energy way higher than the rest. Use some common sense and judgement. Youre hugging girls you dont know, probably not the best idea all the time.

Im willing to bet you try to hide your neediness with too much energy, which ends up being just as needy and creepy.

"being in the zone" is internal. Your inner confidence isnt there yet. What youre doing now is good as a start and i applaud you for it, but try to have a cooler, easier and laid back approach.