| Forget social proof. I go to uni as well and talk to a lot of girls in college. When it comes to being in class, spot your target first. Just sit next to the girl in class, no questions asked. Turn your head at her and say, "Hey.." and wait until you got her attention. Once she looks at you, say, "You looked interesting so I wanted to meet you." Now look, sometimes I've opened girls with being very direct such as, "I just wanted to say that for the past three classes all I've been looking at is you whipping that hair around. It was such a distraction that I had to come talk to you." When you're being very direct like that, it can be a hit or a miss. Instead, I like to still be direct, but with calibration. First tell her she looks interesting followed up by your intention: so I wanted to meet you. NOW from there, you have to calibrate to see whether you should use your very direct line as the conversation goes on.
After you open her, you want to ask her name. After you get her name, tell her yours and put out your hand for her to shake. When she shakes it, never, ever let go first. What I like to do is transition that into caressing it or locking hands saying a compliment like, "You have soft hands..." or "You smell nice.." bla bla. While you say that, go back to being social. Ask her a question. "What year you in?" while you're caressing her hand. Ask some bullshit questions and pause, see if she asks you the same thing back. She may or she may not. Use seductive eye contact and look into her eyes. She either doesn't like you, she's very nervous, or very into you. Most of the time it's the last two reasons.
Let her do most of the talking. Questions I like to ask are:
What nationality are you? You look...
Where you from?
You live on campus?
What are you majoring in?
You party a lot? (They always got good long ass stories for this one)
You want to try and get her to talk while you're seducing her. Keep a poker face every now and then. After all that, I usually like to go for the number. "What's your number." I don't know you that well. "Me neither, I just thought we could go grab an innocent cup of coffee later on or something." (humble & genuine WHILE touching her).
The toughest situations are when the girl only gives you one word answers or doesn't give you much to work with. I personally like to get shit tested, it's an IOI and I can work with it to display more attractive qualities or if the girl is high energy or has personality. The girl could also just be tired, especially in an 8 am class. Either way, if you get one word answers, stay persistent and try to get away with more. Try to get her to say no. You'll either walk out of that class rejected or with success, that way you don't beat around the bush. Just stay chill and don't care how it goes.
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